I feel very lost right now. I am gay, HIV-Positive and have NF1. I was born with NF1 and had numerous surgeries since I was a child leading to severe disfigurements. In addition to my coming out, my parents eventually disowned me for being gay. I moved to NYC from LA and discovered that I was HIV-positive. That was several years ago. I have since found myself in a deep depression that hinders my ability to form healthy relationships with others who are not only accepting but non-judgemental as well. I work in the arts and my work can be sporadic thus leaving me with no additional income. Since my diganosis, I have taken anti-depressants(which have not helped), undergone therapy and exercised consistently trying to maintain my health and well being. It is rather diffucult since I have no family and little friends. I think the enormity of my situation has dissuaded others from being my friend. I feel like I want to die sometimes. What do I do? I feel so alone and isolated.
2007-06-09 11:55:46 · 13 answers · asked by EvanNY 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Im sorry. That is no way for someone to live. And if your parents are going to disown you for being gay, you should feel better off without them. You need to find a support group or something. It might help.
2007-06-09 12:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by for me to know, you to not... 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Well if they are really your friends then they will respect you and not run their mouths. But I understand that you are 16 and still in high school and I know how that can be. But I think your story should be told to everyone gay,straight or bisexual. People these day don't realize how easy it is to catch STD's A really good friend of mine just found out about a month ago that she has Herpes . She and her boyfriend were drunk one night and decided to have a threesome with another girl who I think was around your age and who had said she'd only had two sexual partners. You can't live your life worrying about what other people think or say about you, if you do you'll never be happy. Real true people will understand your situation and be your friend regardless of any mistake's you have made. Good Luck to you I wish you the best. I can't be any help when it comes to resource centers in your are because i'm in Ga. I would think the place where you were diagnosed would know of some places. Also if you are planning on taking medication for it your doctor should be able to recommend somewhere.
2016-04-01 12:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up. There's always hope. It sucks that your own family disowned you, just because you're gay. One day, they will regret it for the rest of their lifes. Do some search for support groups, and see if you can find some counseling. You're a special person and you don't deserve to let things get down on you. Good luck in life and I do wish you the best. You have a new friend here.
2007-06-09 12:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by Ethan Vallejo-Mendez 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Family isnt defined as "your blood". I have found in my time that the people that have always be supportive of me was my "friends". Isolating yourself will only make you feel disempowered over your situation and lead to very sever depression. You obviously want to reach out but are living based on fear and mental anguish. I would suggest "group support". I am sure that there are people out there in your similar situation or close to it. Connect groups can help you gain the support you need and also help you to build new relationships. God Bless you dear............
XO
2007-06-09 12:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by Rachael J 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I think thats really sad, most people suffer enough angst just being gay without HIV being present and on top of that you have NF 1! I think you have to try and seperate it all, and learn to respect and love yourself otherwise no one will do it for you, there are plenty of support groups associated with all three of your problems......hang in there .....you will find friends and support!
2007-06-09 12:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by turkeyhug 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear you have such a difficult life, atleast you are tryng to help your self. Mabye you should get some councelling? but i dont know since im not qualified to really answer your question all i can say is good luck i hope the future is better than the past.
2007-06-10 07:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I cannot imagine carrying this burden. I have nothing to offer you except my prayer (which I promise I will) and my friendship from a distance. I will be open to e-mail communication, if you would want. I am a healthcare provider so I have an understanding of the physical and mental problems you are shouldering.
2007-06-09 12:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by tlbrown42000 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to hear of your situation. You are obviously a brave and special person and if I lived near you I would be proud to call you a friend. Anyone who can call you a friend is privileged.
Love.
The Mad Woman in the Attic.
2007-06-09 12:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Reach out on sites like this for similar people. Life is tough. It either makes you stronger or depressed.
2007-06-09 12:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by GOPneedsarealconservative 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If I lived anywhere close to you, I'd come over & keep you company. Or at least we could play some board games or watch movies.
2007-06-09 12:23:54 · answer #10 · answered by PeeWee 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋