Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - January 2007

The other day somebody i know said that they had joined Gaydar.com for a laugh to see if they could attract anyone. So i thought that i would go on it to see what it is all about. When reading some guys profiles on the sexual activity bit it said most things they like doing i cant mention them but you must get the idea! .. My question is one of them said 'tea rooms' what is this. Can someone explain it to me! thanks

2007-01-17 22:13:02 · 6 answers · asked by nicnac 3

i think that porn should be aloowed for ages 14 or 16 and up...
soooooooooooo many 14 year old boys/girls start watching porn at that time and some younger. If you mature enough to watch porn you should be alowed to watch it

2007-01-17 21:37:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm rueful to admit it, but I was deceived three separate times at the same nude pool party (and permitted to feel them, at that) by three different women I'd met for the first time..

2007-01-17 21:05:29 · 6 answers · asked by 21FRANK D 1

me and my friend were drunk and we started play fighting next thing were fooling around in bed, i think im GAY.... Ive kind of always expected it but I have a boyfriend and he will be heartbroken how do I tell him what happened

2007-01-17 21:03:19 · 14 answers · asked by angel 2

known friends as in a guy's best friend's girlfriend or a male kissing a co-workers wife when they meet at the office after a long time.
I feel would i be offending someone if i dont do that when faced in the situation, cause i wont want - a simple hand shake would do.

2007-01-17 20:48:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is something that REALLY turns you on!!

2007-01-17 20:48:10 · 12 answers · asked by angel 1

facts and figures of homophobia

2007-01-17 20:44:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i have met her online but i dont know how to tell if she cares...we both email each other and we talk on the phone. She broke up with her gf 3 months ago and i just broke up with ine like a month ago. Plus how do i tell her that i'm interested in her?

2007-01-17 20:33:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think there is a little bit of racism in everyone, but havent we found a cure to end it.

2007-01-17 20:19:28 · 11 answers · asked by Kieran 1

Cottaging for gays is allowed, Muslims can protest on our streets"Kill the western infidels" any one can come here and claim benefits, our kids are taught about being gay at the age when they shouldn't even be thinking or knowing about sex and it seems the only religion they are not taught about is christianity, the list is endless It seems the only people who are discriminated against are hetrosexual white brtis. Am i being paraniod or do you agree it's time we said enough is enough.

2007-01-17 19:56:32 · 18 answers · asked by SilverSurfer 4

I have my husband with 2 sons, but I feel unhappiness because I found I was in fact a lesbian after I lived with my husband for 4 years . To find my true love, I join one great lesbian dating club(http://www.ldate.com/i/lesbianclub) and incredible that I found my soul mate about one month later. She also love me very much. We had a great online chat and I could not wait to have a chat with her face to face. After having a face to face chat with her, she said she could not live without me, she wanted me to marry her asap. I also would like to marry her, but should I desert my husband and two sons? Please tell me how to deal with the problem, I am really in a bad mood and do not know how to do.

2007-01-17 19:49:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have my husband with 2 sons, but I feel unhappiness because I found I was in fact a lesbian after I lived with my husband for 4 years . To find my true love, I join one great lesbian dating club(http://www.ldate.com/i/lesbianclub) and incredible that I found my soul mate about one month later. She also love me very much. We had a great online chat and I could not wait to have a chat with her face to face. After having a face to face chat with her, she said she could not live without me, she wanted me to marry her asap. I also would like to marry her, but should I desert my husband and two sons? Please tell me how to deal with the problem, I am really in a bad mood and do not know how to do.

2007-01-17 19:48:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-17 19:41:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

What's this world coming to?

I was sitting in a cafe a few minutes ago, reading Il Gazetto Dello Sport and drinking a double espresso. Suddenly four Italian Carabinieri (Italy's para-military police) come strolling in...all decked out in their riot gear...to drink a coffee before battling another student demonstration here in town.

These guys were 25-20, tall, dark and muscular, wearing Armani -designed uniforms (very tailored & slim fit), with snug pants tucked neatly into spit-shined combat boots. Hemets, batons, pistols and radios all hanging seductively off their narrow hips.

So.......how would you feel......?

2007-01-17 19:04:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

sorry about the title of my question... I couldn't think of any thing else to say...

Well anyways, my question is, do u base ur sexuality on the intamacy or the love u have for the person of the same sex?
Can u be attracted to someone of the same sex, and do nothng sexual and still be considered gay? Or are u gay b/c u are attracted to someone of the same sex?

2007-01-17 18:52:32 · 10 answers · asked by buddahbump 3

2007-01-17 18:52:26 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1

Homosexual males come with many sounding voices, deep or femine sounding voices. But, if you have a femine sounding voices are you homosexual? Or is it the same with hetrosexual males, they come with femine and deep sounding voices? This is a question, i'm not trying to sterotype anyone, just a question.

2007-01-17 18:27:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-17 18:23:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-17 18:12:44 · 10 answers · asked by ed 2

2 Parts, 2 View Points. Which do you agree with?

1. People seem to make SUCH a huge deal about human sexuality. "OMG!! He's GAY??!?!?! When did this happen? Why? Was he abused as a child? He played with Barbie, didn't he? Yeah, I could tell."

I think people should stop focusing on "HE like MEN" or "SHE likes WOMEN" and just realise that PEOPLE fall in love with PEOPLE.

My sister told me about a friend who was with her partner for nigh 10 YEARS, and then fell in love with a guy.

Should it be more about "Well, she was in love with me and now she's in love with someone else" rather than "OMG!! She's STRAIGHT and she was lying to me the whole time?!?!?".

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2. Human sexuality a defining part of who we are as people. Whether you like men or like women defines who you are as a person. If HE didn't like men, that wouldn't be him. If SHE liked men, that would be just be ODD.

If you're gay, you're gay. That's the way you were made and that's the way you will always be.

2007-01-17 18:11:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm gay but not in the open, and that question happen often in a bar setting or behind-the-door of the sauna at the gym. Notice that the ''do you have a girlfriend?" is one of the most immediate question being asked. It puzzle me. I'm not paranoid, I just think it's a bit odd.

2007-01-17 17:11:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-17 16:47:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in a gay relationship with somebody. I love him very much and I know that deep inside of him he loves me too. We dont live together, just for the information. The problem is that sometimes I feel very alone. Days can go without him telling me that he loves me...I mean sometimes it's nice to hear it right? I always have to tell him and then he'll say it back. But it's rare when he says it first. He's very busy and lately even more cuz he has a big project due soon. That takes up a lot of his time and I respect and support him. I dont ask to be with him all day every hour on the hour because I know its not possible. But I wish that those couple of hours we talk on the phone would sound "sweeter." I dont like it that i always asks him about his work and everything but he rarely asks me about my activities, if ever. Why is he like this?I know he's faithful..I mean he barely even has a life outside of school.How can I tell him how I feel without him thinking im being overdramatic?

2007-01-17 16:43:24 · 12 answers · asked by David R 1

I know some communities around the country are certainly tolerant, while others are definitly not. Just wondering what you all have experienced lately.

2007-01-17 16:40:59 · 7 answers · asked by collegedebt 3

2007-01-17 16:40:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

im confused about why so many people are against people being gay. i realize that it is cotredictory to some religions, but does it say anywhere in the scripures that being gay is bad? I don't get how people can critize you and hate you because of who you love.

2007-01-17 16:37:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

???

2007-01-17 16:30:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 15 years old and I think I am gay, and I have tried to stop myself from thinking about it so I have sort of accepted that it's just the way I am and there isn't much I can do about because I have tried to make myself not be gay but I still am always attracted to guys. Now that I have accepted it, I really want to tell people. I don't think I will ever tell anyone, but do you think it's weird to have those thoughts? Like I keep wanting to tell my friend that I really trust, because I feel like I am hiding something from them and my other friends. Am I weird??

2007-01-17 16:21:25 · 18 answers · asked by danhh 1

This is just a question I'd like to get a general conensus on. What is the one thing female or male that is a necessity for your daily living?

2007-01-17 16:19:17 · 16 answers · asked by answer this 1

2007-01-17 16:17:59 · 9 answers · asked by ian 1