I have my husband with 2 sons, but I feel unhappiness because I found I was in fact a lesbian after I lived with my husband for 4 years . To find my true love, I join one great lesbian dating club(http://www.ldate.com/i/lesbianclub) and incredible that I found my soul mate about one month later. She also love me very much. We had a great online chat and I could not wait to have a chat with her face to face. After having a face to face chat with her, she said she could not live without me, she wanted me to marry her asap. I also would like to marry her, but should I desert my husband and two sons? Please tell me how to deal with the problem, I am really in a bad mood and do not know how to do.
2007-01-17 19:48:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
there is no late to find out any thing
2007-01-17 19:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Harshad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY!!! Remember that the grass is always greener on the other side for starters. No matter who you leave your husband for, man or woman, the butterflies from the excitement of a new relationship often cloud our judgement. I think if you are questioning whether you should leave your children and husband, then you should spend some time alone in a period of separation to "find yourself" and your true inner desires. Of course this other relationship seems lovely. You haven't picked up her dirty underwear or traveled in a car with her for 10 hours or seen how she handles conflict, etc. Don't leave in a leap of faith. Time spent alone is time well spent when we're in a state of confusion.
2007-01-18 03:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by squealy68 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could see you leaving your husband but not your children. This dose happen I have been there and I am with my two daughters but not with my husband. Just be carefull and think this out before you make a big move like this. There is more involved then you thing. good luck.....
2007-01-18 12:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is 2 short 2 b unhappy, sounds like u've given it a good go with ur hubby & altho things will surely b difficult 4 a while with ur hubby & children.. u have 2 do what u have 2 do. once ppl c u r happy they will hopefully just let it all slide & get on with their own things. b honest with those u luv, especially ur kids.
from one lesbian mother 2 another..
2007-01-18 03:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by kyma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta do what you gotta do, dont abandon the kiids tho
2007-01-18 03:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by blakorkid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋