Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - January 2007

2007-01-01 15:15:40 · 27 answers · asked by fresh2 4

My husband and have just discovered he is bi-curious after 8 years together he has tried to keep the gay porn sites, fantasies, and his sex toys hid. Now I found out he likes to put on my undergarments. And yes this has us both frustrated and hurt right now. He wants me to wear a strap on to bed with him or let him wear his drag when we have sex and I just can't imagene doing either. I try to be open minded but the thought just really turns me off. I support him right now because I know his got to be so confussed and I know that he's still turned by women but I just can't help him with these things in the bedroom I can be here for support and as a loving wife to talk to but I can't do those things in bed with him when I'm hurting so much.

2007-01-01 14:58:34 · 16 answers · asked by queenkeikei_2 1

When you have your hair braided tightly in (what used to be called) corn rows...how do you tighten up the base as your hair grows...do you have to undo each one and rebraid it? Or can you just let it grow as is for a while. I know that other types of hair can do this as well and I hope this isn't too stupid a question...but there are no black people around here..so I can't really ask anyone..I'm asking on the GLBT site 'cause thats where I usually hang out . Thanks

2007-01-01 14:57:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He stops to admire another caveman. Is he gay and he finds the guy in the poster apealing?? They are playing that romantic music.

2007-01-01 14:49:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-01 14:43:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since this forum is anonymous I expect answers to be brutally truthful. So what do you think about African Americans who straighten their hair or wear straight wigs? Do you think its cool or silly?

2007-01-01 14:28:29 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since I am a the victim of cirmemstance I get in trouble.
My best friend's a girl... so what. She's a lesbian, but she has bi tendencies lately. her moms, plural, are in their late twenties. Her birth mom and her 'friend'. well, they're also a little bi, and were talking about having another kid. I went to my friend's house to she if she was home. her mom was home, and let me in. She didn't say anything, I immediately became supisicious. She yelled for me to come upstairs to her room. I reluctantly went. I came in and noticed my friend wasn't home. I was nervous. she came up to me, real close, and pushed me onto the bed... then she got on top of me and I pushed her off and left.

I told my friend. and she tried to keep a straight face and said ,"You gotta watch out for those older woman." And then my girlfriend said the same thing. I'm 18, this is too weird for me.

2007-01-01 14:18:16 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2

A man exchanges $20.00 for a few minutes of warmth and release, followed by weeks of modest fear and emptiness. Meanwhile, the woman spends it on a blouse, perfume or eyeliner. Who comes out ahead?

2007-01-01 14:13:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

honestly, i think thats the dumbest thing ever proposed, but i want to hear from people that DO think this is a disease...why do you believe it is a sickness?

2007-01-01 14:11:45 · 23 answers · asked by Nana 1

This one I really need help on. I'm trying of think of appropiate food to eat off my partner. Peanut Butter is so overused. It doesn't matter how bizarre just give me the scoop!! (Ice cream is not a bad idea)

2007-01-01 13:52:35 · 16 answers · asked by m_0hi 1

Could you please do me a favor & give all your straight male friends your advice on how to be a decent guy? There was a guy I met about 2 weeks ago that was gorgeous & had a great personality then I found out he had a partner. It just seems like all the nice guys are gay. I did meet someone else but the jerk was married. So if you have any straight male friends please will you teach them how to be a class act

2007-01-01 13:43:08 · 5 answers · asked by gitsliveon24 5

I am not talking about physyical attraction. Obviously, you would come up with several different answers. But what do men find overwelming in a woman? Just curious, but I think I know the answer.
Reply......

2007-01-01 13:36:27 · 14 answers · asked by classy lady 1

What are your stories?

2007-01-01 13:33:01 · 10 answers · asked by Nana 1

whats the youngets and oldest a 21 year old should go out with

2007-01-01 13:22:27 · 21 answers · asked by the_chupa_thingy 1

2007-01-01 13:19:25 · 11 answers · asked by Justine T 2

I am in love with my childhood best friend and cousin, i dont even remember when it started.We are like with same personality and nature.In our teen years we got quite close and had feelings for each other,we even planned to do some stuff but were to shy to get involved in sexual way.However we got over the sex part but i still have feelings.Due to some misunderstanding we had some year gap in our friendship but we did worked on it.Now we are not kids anymore and he is engaged but whenever we get together all these feelings rush back into my mind , I know it was ok for kids to play around but not anymore so I wana get over but I dont know what to do ,I want to but i cant and I cant even stop seeing him he is like a family member.I cant talk 2 him about it ,i know it will freak him out and we will end up not evenin talking to each other while in same room.Sometime i think i cant get over this feeling because I dont know if he is over me, may be I catch signal deliberatly to cheer myself

2007-01-01 13:15:57 · 11 answers · asked by decent_guy 1

like to have them both at the same time, but they don't like one another because of me. How can I convince them?

2007-01-01 13:13:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

whether Im gay and they say its because of the advice I give and that normally a guy wouldnt give such advice unless he was older and he had life experience etc and even then its rare to find such an understanding guy....
so Im like 15 and people come to me for advice and its usually the girls and the guys said it makes me look gay well i dont care what they think I just wanna know why they think that just because of my advice?

2007-01-01 13:10:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've totally fallen for this kid at work. I'm 19, and he's 17. I felt all along that he was being really flirty with me, so last week I bit the bullet and told him. He really didn't know what to say except that he wasn't interested in "that", which I took to mean men. That's all fine and good...I was upset, but I got over it. But, ever since I told him, I swear he's being even more flirty with me than he was before I told him. I'm not actively pursuing anything with him, but I really don't know what to do. In retrospect, I feel like in the conversation we had, he was trying to get out of it because it made him uncomfortable. But I don't know if it was uncomfortable because he didn't know how to deal with his feelings for me or because he was being honest. I mean, he's only 17 years old. Okay...I know it's tough not seeing this interaction first hand. Here's the question: If the above situation happened to you, would you consider the possibility still open, or move on to other things?

2007-01-01 13:09:21 · 17 answers · asked by Doug 2

I am gay but I have long thought that homosexuality is wrong because it is sex just for the physical and emotional feeling... that the physical nature of it is base and that emotional companionship is available via safer, more virtuous (I'm Catholic, too, by the way) means.

However, I have a hard time seeing why God would even care if I love a woman and want to marry her. I mean, He made me this way, so I don't see why it should really be a problem so long as I am chaste and exhibit virtue and love for Him and all His creation.

The thing that hurts and really bothers me is that although I'm celibate, if I were to enter into a relationship, it would cut me off from the Most Holy Sacraments, which I love dearly and I find tremendously important. I do not see why, if I have a girlfriend and am indeed much more chaste than my straight friends, I am a mortal sinner and cannot recieve the Blessed Sacraments. What has companionship with a lovely lady to do with the Eucharist?

2007-01-01 12:49:46 · 11 answers · asked by Rat 7

The incidence of 20-something female teachers raping their 14 year-old male students is on the rise....

2007-01-01 12:42:53 · 13 answers · asked by Ashley 3

Any fun gay bars in DC where the professional types hang out?

2007-01-01 12:42:07 · 4 answers · asked by Yikes! 5

what else can you talk about to some1 i've ran outt of stuff... HELP!!!

2007-01-01 12:36:34 · 7 answers · asked by littlemizzhelp 1

2007-01-01 12:36:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am gay and I know that the Church teaches that homosexual acts are wrong. I agree with this. However, I wonder if it would ever be possible for me to develop a heterosexual relationship (even though I am very gay) and if so, would it be morally wrong to pursue it because God made me gay? I guess what I am saying is do I have to be single or might I, through some freak chance, find a guy and be able to fall in love with him and marry?

2007-01-01 12:34:45 · 9 answers · asked by Rat 7

2007-01-01 12:22:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We had been best friends for 8 years. I always bought her gifts and stuff, shared what ever I had, etc. After 2 years of friendship, I started to really love her. For the first 2 years, I only viewed her as being a friend, but suddenly it changed. I started being there through her relationships with guys who screwed her and I got angrier than she did when they hurt her in some way or form and jealous at the guys. I told a couple of her boyfriends off, because at the time I just felt like one had cheated on her and did not deserve her and the other disrespectfully would look at her friends butts as they passed him. Basically what happened is one night I got drunk and started telling people that I was bi at a bar and she found out. I came clean about being bi. She wanted to know whether I had a crush on her. I kept saying no, even though, I did, fearing what she would think. Anyway, she decided that I did have a crush on her and did not want to have anything to do with me ever.

2007-01-01 12:20:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

some of you may know my story. for those who don't i have a friend who i really, REALLY like. I flirt all the time at work and just get along really well. Lately I've been thinking about her non-stop. I don't know what it is, I've been dreaming about her every night for the last week and thinking about her all during the day.
So she calls me today and wants to go shopping. So I pick her up (she looks soo good). We talk about when we were in high school and stuff and then we get to the store. while shopping, I noticed she is extra touchy today. She keeps patting me on the shoulder. In another store we're walking down the isle and keep bumping into each other. I just wanted to grab her and hold her. It took soo much of me not to at least grab her hand. Earlier I said something and she said, "See, that's why I love..." and trailed off. Then when taking her home I gave her some cookies I made. I told her there was one in there that i made with her in mind. She saw it and said, "A Heart?

2007-01-01 12:15:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-01 12:14:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Give me a detailed description of the best gay sex youve ever had!

2007-01-01 12:12:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous