some of you may know my story. for those who don't i have a friend who i really, REALLY like. I flirt all the time at work and just get along really well. Lately I've been thinking about her non-stop. I don't know what it is, I've been dreaming about her every night for the last week and thinking about her all during the day.
So she calls me today and wants to go shopping. So I pick her up (she looks soo good). We talk about when we were in high school and stuff and then we get to the store. while shopping, I noticed she is extra touchy today. She keeps patting me on the shoulder. In another store we're walking down the isle and keep bumping into each other. I just wanted to grab her and hold her. It took soo much of me not to at least grab her hand. Earlier I said something and she said, "See, that's why I love..." and trailed off. Then when taking her home I gave her some cookies I made. I told her there was one in there that i made with her in mind. She saw it and said, "A Heart?
2007-01-01 12:15:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
not enough room. She looked at it again it and yelled, "Ethiopia!" I said it was Africa but if you turn it upside down it's ethiopia. She was excited. I joke saying why would I give her a heart. She said, "You love me, you really really love me." pretending to be sally fields. Anyway, i took her over to her aunts and she said she had a good time and wished it wasn't soo short. and that she's gonna make me lunch and bring it tomorrow. You guys, I'm falling hard and I don't know what to do. Is she really just a friend or what? what should I do? I mean, I'm very in the closet and I don't know if she's even gay or bi or what. It's just getting hard for me to keep from touching her. I even pinched her hand (not hard) but like a love pinch while asking her to remind me to bring something tomorrow. Do you think it's possible to be in a relationship without even realizing it?
2007-01-01 12:20:04 · update #1
Wow... if only another girl should fall for me that way... whew!
Okay, back on track. Sounds like you... like her, maybe...even more than like. I think that you should tell her. Not tommorow!! Someday.
She might like you too. I mean really like you. The hints you give are way too obvious. Spend more time with her, and no matter what should happen between you two, stay friends.
2007-01-01 14:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by m_0hi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... this one's a toughie. I've been in the same position you have. My suggestion would be to keep flirting and maybe go alittle further with the touching and see how she reacts. Everything should fall into place after that. Good luck : )
2007-01-01 20:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you don't give much to work with but... She seems to know your feelings for her. She can't deny you because she wants you as a friend.(rejection tends to break most bonds). You should consider any reasons she might have for staying close to you. Like the stereotype " I'm miserable and need a friend". If nothing really comes to mind there is a good chance she has "feelings for you" but has trouble coming to terms with it.
2007-01-01 20:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by Cortu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about asking her? Keep this dance you two have going on long enough and you'll never know.
2007-01-01 20:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry, Is she or are you what?????
Maybe you need to tell her, write her a letter or something like that.
Good Luck!
2007-01-01 20:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by Me...Cat Tyson?? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ASK HER! or you might find you;re misreading everything.
2007-01-01 23:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing crazy about that.
You found someone who fills up your thoughts
and she seems to like you as well.
Where is the problem?
Enjoy the situation!
You are welcome!
2007-01-01 20:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by saehli 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋