I am gay and I know that the Church teaches that homosexual acts are wrong. I agree with this. However, I wonder if it would ever be possible for me to develop a heterosexual relationship (even though I am very gay) and if so, would it be morally wrong to pursue it because God made me gay? I guess what I am saying is do I have to be single or might I, through some freak chance, find a guy and be able to fall in love with him and marry?
2007-01-01 12:34:45 · 9 answers · asked by Rat 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Why would you make yourself DO anything, isn't life suppose to be a natural thing? Sexual orientation too? just be yourself and be proud of who you are.
2007-01-01 13:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by michael o 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you'd just be lying to him and yourself. There is nothing wrong with homosexual relationships and I hope you realize this but if you choose not to have relationships with those you are attracted to you need to just live life alone. If you are gay now you will be for the rest of your life and you won't be able to fall in love with someone of the opposite sex.
I hope you come to better terms with yourself than you seem to have. Whatever you do please live life as happily as possible.
2007-01-01 21:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rageling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, God did not make you gay, you did. Your choice of lifestyle not his.
Iam bisexual and married to a wonder full woman for 20 years, I dont practice. Even though its hard. I know homosexuality is wrong also, so i abstain from it. That's the way it has to be, because that's the way it is. The devil is the one who wants you to do what is wrong. Remember that when you get those feelings.
2007-01-02 06:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Although it would be possible to find a guy that you fall in love with, since you say that you are very gay I would think that it would require you to lie to yourself and lie to others. Being dishonest to yourself and to others rarely lasts forever and can result in hurt feelings, resentment, and ruined lives. The only person you have to answer to is yourself and your Creator, and you should always be honest with yourself because that is who you have to live with for the rest of your life.
2007-01-01 21:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest you to visit the website:http://www.couragerc.net/
there a plenty people having the same problem,you can discuss with them
about the marriage
does the idea of having sex with a man scarce you?
if it doesn't,you can marry the man that you love (agape),if you have children,that will be fine but it will require a lot of effort, i don't encourage you to do this
you can't decide the way you was born,but you can decide what way you want to live and what way you want to face the moment of death
if it does,then you'd better stay celibate
do you believe in the Perpetual virginity of our mother Mary
how can she stay virgin for all of her life? it's also mean that saint Joseph didn't have sex with her and with any other women for the rest of his life.How could they do that?
because they lived with our Lord Jesus the living God,they saw the Lord with their own eyes,they toughed him,they hearded him,they felt his existence
Moses din't have sex too,for he knew God "face to face"
they lived with God so they didn't feel the need to have sex for God fulfilled them
you can learn the lesson
invite God to your life
love your neighbors as yourself so you can love God with all of your heat,with all of your strength,with all of your mind,so your body will be the temple of the Holy Spirit,so you can feel God just like he is just next to you
you must choose and take responsibility for your action
may God be with you closely
i will pray for you
2007-01-02 06:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by dollarian_forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that religion or politics should be in our bedrooms. Love and be loved. Live and let live. Be yourself and be happy. Why waste time on earth over things like that? Life is too short to not be happy.
2007-01-02 00:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by cripesokay2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would it be fair and proper to your husband. Love has many levels surely (being a fervent Catholic) you wouldn't want to receive this Sacrament without being fully in love and fully able to give yourself over to him?
2007-01-01 21:36:16 · answer #7 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is so many things that can go wrong.
Have you ever watched,"The Hours". (Julianne is so hot!)
2007-01-02 00:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by m_0hi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do so, you would be a liar.
2007-01-01 21:07:12 · answer #9 · answered by Kedar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋