Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - January 2007

I have been thinking about joining the National Guard. I need a way to start making my own money so I can pay for college myself instead of having my mom pay for everything and taking control of my life. I see joing the National Guard as a way out. I will be making my own money, have money for college, and I think it will help me become more independent and a stronger person. My friends tell me that it is a bad idea because I am black, a girl and gay. I do have a friend that is in the National Guard and she says that none of that matters because she is both black and a girl and says that I just don't say anything about being gay. I still am a little hesitant about joining. Do I have good reasons and will it help be become a stronger and more dependent person. If I do join, I will do it during the summer while school is out. When the summer is over, I think I might transfer to a school out of the city. Does anyone have any advice on what I should do or anything I need to be prepared for

2007-01-02 08:18:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

You are gay, lesbian.,bi-sexual or transgendered,a crossdresser?
Do you feel that you are free to be as you are?
Are you accepted by society?
Do you encounter a lot of resistance?

2007-01-02 08:07:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married, with children.....always have been very straight.
But I have been finding myself so aroused at the thought of doing some things to a certain type of woman, and having that type of woman do certain things to me. But......when I came close to doing something about it.....I chickened out. (email tag and stuff like that)
AND when I SEE women around, the actual thought of literally doing something with them doesn't arouse me. I am afraid that I'll get cold feet and not want to do it.......and that I'll end up letting some bi chick, or lesbian chick have their way with me and be dry as a desert, and have no desire what so ever to do all the things i've fantasized about doing.

what should I do? get a porn tape, and just keep the fantasy in my head or indulge? What if it's just a mental thing.......i'm confused about it. any advice????

2007-01-02 08:02:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Cant a guy like listening to Abba or Girls Aloud and not be gay or camp as butlins?

2007-01-02 07:58:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am REALLY interested in my best friend. I'm gay. How do I expresss my feelings of a sexual nature to them?

2007-01-02 07:47:46 · 10 answers · asked by Brad 1

even if it means compromising on some of my morals. Also, if I don't honour it any good ideas of how to get out of it?

2007-01-02 07:46:34 · 15 answers · asked by waggy 6

people of your own sex good looking? for example I find alot guys good looking but I would never wanna have sex with them ever.

Im confused? and no I dont think Im in the closet

2007-01-02 07:44:05 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 15 and pretty much out to everyone... my school, my parents(though not accepting of it), Friends.
Most of them are pretty chill with it. But me being "butch" or typical lesbain.. give me away. Though i am not hiding it i really hate people coming up to me in the halls and calling me fag or other things. I truly have gotten to end of everything i can do. I have tried to get help and everything.. My girlfriend and i are really un elcome in my highschool and i regret that we have to go through this. My oher gay friends don't get it as bad as we do though.
So is beacause me and girlfriend are together we harassed?
Anyway I can stop caring about what they say?
Any tips how to deal with these closed minded people?

2007-01-02 07:30:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should it be made to accept new laws on homosexuals if it disagrees? I know people will say there are some in the Church. However if the Cof E do not wish to regonise them as part of their religion why should they?

2007-01-02 07:18:33 · 16 answers · asked by deadly 4

Are we all exposed to be homosexual?
refering to the movie brockbackmountain. I think there is something strong in that movie that is scary about our sexuality. all of us hetero and homo. Are we really what people think we are?

2007-01-02 07:11:33 · 17 answers · asked by nikonan21 1

Is that Bisexuality? I consider myself to be bisexual though right now I lean more towards women because I'm in a relationship with one. But I was married for 16 years and I'm still attracted to men. But to be honest, I fall for the person first and consider the package they happen to be in part of my love for the person.

2007-01-02 07:03:19 · 9 answers · asked by raduodogi 2

I am 17 years old. I have feelings for other hot teenage guys. I want to see some of my friends shirrtless so bad, and I don't know how to ask them to see their chest. I also want to remove their shirt and/or clothes myself. What do I do?

2007-01-02 06:42:51 · 15 answers · asked by Brad 1

2007-01-02 06:35:28 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do gays want to advertize that they are gay?? why do they think anbody cares? Especially, why do they have gay day at Disneyworld, of all places? Thats just sick! are they looking for little boys to have fun with? OH MY!!!

2007-01-02 06:22:54 · 13 answers · asked by Montecar3 3

2007-01-02 06:19:30 · 11 answers · asked by manpo2k 2

2007-01-02 06:10:22 · 20 answers · asked by anything goes 2

My lesbian girlfriend is leaving me cos her mum does not accept it. She says she still loves me but her mum will mum threatens to kick her out if she doesn't stop seeing me and stops this lesbian crap. Is that wrong of her to deny who she is? Won't it affect her later? I don't think it's fair that she should have to choose between me and her mum and I am worried about her. What should I tell her to convince her to stay? Or is it too late? We have been together for over 2 years.

2007-01-02 05:29:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My cousin is extremely attractive. We both had crushes on eachother when we were younger. But now I'm 25 and married for 4 years, but last year we had too much to drink and started sleeping together, we did it 4 or 5 times that month. she is extremely attractive, and I don't feel remorse or shame at all, how come? Is it normal for cousins to like each other, and mess around?

2007-01-02 05:25:50 · 18 answers · asked by White Boy 1

I work in customer services and I just HATE it when I see those stupid hypocritical teenage/twenty-something year old girls that kiss and hang all over their boyfriend in public. I see it all the time and that is the same type of spoiled girls I see saying that homosexuality is wrong. It's not even JUST the girls, MOST straight people do this. They don't know how great they have it with the fact that they are able to show their love for the person they sincerely truly care about in public if they so wish, but they would get all hypocritical if they saw two gay equivalents who felt the same way as they do and avert their eyes or even be so bold as to say that the gays are wrong or are "forcing" themselves on straight people. Okay, whatever, they are the ones that were JUST doing the SAME thing. How wrong is that? Or they get worried their children might see it. That's why 4 out of 5 teenagers that kill themselves are gay, because of hypocritical parents like that!

2007-01-02 05:19:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-02 05:18:26 · 21 answers · asked by Amy S 1

2007-01-02 05:13:40 · 9 answers · asked by obritto 2

2007-01-02 05:10:55 · 16 answers · asked by sweetie87871 1

I'm bi, but I spent my teens asking myself, 'Am I straight or am I gay?'

I didn't really believe that bisexuality existed. Sounds dumb if you've never gone through it, but I think it's probably more common than most people think.

2007-01-02 04:59:39 · 11 answers · asked by psychedelic_fighter 2

2007-01-02 04:52:34 · 13 answers · asked by cheyenne h 1

people who are women on top and men on the bottom. i cant say the word or it will be deleted... but i saw a documentary on how popular these people are amongst straight men...and was shocked.

2007-01-02 04:48:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my brother bought a sterling silver jewelry with a star pendant.. im not sure if the pendant was made form glass, some kind of plastic or what ever in between.. looks very similar to a prism..

he said he got it when he was in italy (he's from navy).. some ladies went to their ship and sell those accessories.. so he thinks he wont see those ladies again..

i would like to know if you guys know where can i find that kind of jewelry somewhere here in LA county.. i've been checkin out the malls but i only find silver or gold pendants..

2007-01-02 04:48:03 · 3 answers · asked by mystery moo 3

Cheers. I'm interested in this. I agonised over it for years until I came to the conclusion that I'm bi.

2007-01-02 04:42:24 · 19 answers · asked by psychedelic_fighter 2

This soap opera has a woman that also has the sex organs of a man.
What is the term or what do you call a person born that way?

thank you
stef

2007-01-02 04:20:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am trying to figure out what i can say or do to convince my girlfriend to let me have anal sex with her.. she is very negative agianst the whole thing... how can i persuade her??

2007-01-02 04:14:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are a happily married couple who are looking for that other special person. The problem is that we just can't seem to find anywhere legit to look. We want a long-term committed relationship with a woman, but everywhere we look just seems to be focused on those already committed in a relationship. We have looked even at places such as alt.com, adult friend finder.com, and the like, to no avail. Our question; Where do we look? Any help is appreciated. P.S. If you are open to this, and are a 18-30 year old female, please reply and/or email us. Thanks.

2007-01-02 04:11:22 · 1 answers · asked by Cyberiian 2