like to have them both at the same time, but they don't like one another because of me. How can I convince them?
2007-01-01 13:13:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
tell them you think that it would be the best **** ever.Or tell one how the other one thinks shes hot.You could ease her into it by
promising that she wont regret it or you will never ask her again
that worked for me.
2007-01-01 13:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by allurluv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't like each other because of you, then they are not being mature about this, and you are not really dealing in mature relationships.
That is, seems like sexualized relationships of infatuation, like, or lust.
If they are not mature, then there is no predictable result of any of your choices.
You can do whatever you want to do, sleep with them both, and let them sort out their own preferences. What people say, and what they do are two separate things. They may say they won't share you, but when the candy is tasty, it just makes you reach for it anyway!
Or, you can give up on having them both and pick the one that helps you most to be happy about yourself.
2007-01-01 23:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by Roberta F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a polygamist martyr and take them both
No....take the hotter one. ALWAYS take the hotter one
I was in this situation once. Which ever one you have more feelings for. Which ever one is more interesting. If she stares at you she likes you. Go with the one that loves you and is not a psychotic killer.
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2007-01-01 21:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by Jade 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bugger alone knows......
Perhaps asking them calmly, like adults would show that you respect them both. Because, certainly, if they know that you are sleeping with both of them, they can't be TOO against the idea, right?
Good luck.
2007-01-01 21:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, they are being perfectly fair about not wanting to share you, I wouldn't want to share the person I love with anyone else either. You just gotta choose.
2007-01-01 21:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by Rageling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt sound like that party of 3 is gonna happen. It sounds like they feel played
2007-01-01 23:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by W.E.S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.I'lll say that you should just...at least....talk to them...and tell them what you feel inside of you....tell em that they have to understand that you feel the equal satisfaction and feelings for both of them....but don't worry...that happened to me one time...and dam it feels good to be loved with both of them ladies that you love....well....just keep on talking to them...andkeep on loving them.... here's my e-mail if you need some friend to talk to...
framirez_apb2010@yahoo.com
2007-01-01 23:08:31 · answer #7 · answered by smiley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop them both. You're not worthy of them.
2007-01-01 21:21:27 · answer #8 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD TALK TO THEM...
AND THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE DOING....
CAUSE YOU MAY HURT ONE OR THE OTHER!!!!
2007-01-01 21:15:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am i to understand that you want your cake and want to eat it to. Or is that pie.
2007-01-01 21:19:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋