Since I am a the victim of cirmemstance I get in trouble.
My best friend's a girl... so what. She's a lesbian, but she has bi tendencies lately. her moms, plural, are in their late twenties. Her birth mom and her 'friend'. well, they're also a little bi, and were talking about having another kid. I went to my friend's house to she if she was home. her mom was home, and let me in. She didn't say anything, I immediately became supisicious. She yelled for me to come upstairs to her room. I reluctantly went. I came in and noticed my friend wasn't home. I was nervous. she came up to me, real close, and pushed me onto the bed... then she got on top of me and I pushed her off and left.
I told my friend. and she tried to keep a straight face and said ,"You gotta watch out for those older woman." And then my girlfriend said the same thing. I'm 18, this is too weird for me.
2007-01-01 14:18:16 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Mature answers please.
2007-01-01 14:18:59 · update #1
My friend's mom was whore in high school... think about it.
2007-01-01 14:25:26 · update #2
Correction Early thrirties...
2007-01-01 14:29:06 · update #3
Ok so, time for some boundaries with your friend and her mom(s). You need to not go over to their house again. If you go back she will probably find some way to try it again. You are weirded out because it is weird, btw. The technical term for this is attempted sexual assault.
So, if you want to see your friend, ring her up and pick a meeting place or invite her over to your house. As said before, avoid this crazy woman, stay away from your friend's house. How gross that she wants you for a sperm donor. Ech. If your friend wants to know why you are not coming over any more, remind her what happened and that if her mom should try it again you would have to have her charged, possibly arrested and you think that would get in the way of the friendship.
Your friend should have a serious talk with her mom, so she knows you are not flattered by her attention and if it happens again you plan on pressing charges. No one would think this was ok if you re-tell the story making you/the victim a teen age girl in the scenario. The shock and trauma from such an experience is the same no matter what the gender of the victim is!
Good luck, stay away, make sure your friend knows that she needs to make her mom back off. If she refuses to see the seriousness of the situation,I think termination of your friendship is necessary.- Blessings- dd
2007-01-01 15:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by dedum 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm, that's attempted sexual assault or attempted rape. A pretty serious felony in any state (and in a conservative state, even worse given the sexual orientation).
I would be on my toes if I were you and also trying to find some friends that are a little more in my age range. I wouldn't really visit that house again. If you want to hang out with your friend, invite her to yours or meet at some neutral location.
Of course, I don't think this has much to do with her mom being lesbian/bi; if all of this is true, her mom is just a sick person. Luckily, most GLBT people aren't sick.
2007-01-02 00:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by Target Acquired 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi Al!!!!! It's your buddy! who cares...
I think you did the right thing to leave. I'd run, cuz I am not a lesbian or bi. I know her mom is weird, she winked at me once. So calm down buddy. Talk to me again, and I won't make fun of you this time.
2007-01-01 23:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you woke up was the bed wet?Hey we all have weird dreams,Better be aware it's statuary rape to have sex with a minor,Heck if your g/f mum is in her late 20s.What age is the g/f
2007-01-01 22:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
How old can your "best friend" possibly be if she has a mom in her late twenties.
I think you need to hang out with people your own age.
2007-01-01 22:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by DontPanic 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
It is too weird for anyone, unless you are one of them. Are you? If not, live and let lie. You don't live to participate or even associate. Your call.
2007-01-01 22:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was talking to a lesbian once and she mentioned that she and her partner wanted to have a child. She wanted to carry the child and have it half asian since her partner was Korean. I think she was close to asking me to father their child, but didn't...
2007-01-01 22:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by RyVu 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well always follow your gut you felt something when she let you in next time you will know to listen to your inner self and don't worry it's happened to us all
2007-01-01 22:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT'S JUST LIKE A BOWL OF SALAD...
SISTERS , BROTHERS, THE FAMILY DOG... IT'S ALL GOOD, WHY MAKE ANY BEHAVIOR OFF LIMITS, BRING IN THE ZEBRA'S I'VE ALLWAYS LIKED STRIPES!
RUN , RUN!
2007-01-01 22:23:58 · answer #9 · answered by Bonno 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
lemme get this straight. You're 18 and you got a 29 year old lipstick lesbo hottie putting the moves on you.
Damn kid, I would have loved to have had your 'problem' when I was 18. Of course if she's an ugly butch, I would stay away.....forever.
2007-01-01 22:40:16 · answer #10 · answered by jloertscher 5 · 0⤊ 7⤋