Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - December 2006

Ok, so, i'm a 15 year old girl, and i'm bi but only a couple of people know. Anyway, i've been in love with this girl for 8 years. I know i have no chance with her because she's straight and she has a bf who she's in love with. I just need someone to tell me how to get over. It's usually easy for me, i've had a lot of crushes in the past, but i've always been able to "turn off my feelings" for them if i needed to. However, i can't stop loving this girl. I'm literally in love with her. I know it's not just a crush because i've had crushes before, this is a different. I met her in elementary school because we were on the same soccer and basketball teams for a while. I was actually friends with her until 8th grade or so, i guess we just went out seperate ways and got differnet friends. I actually had a crush on her when i first met her, then i fell in love with her. She has a really great personality and she's gorgeous. I just need help getting over her, or some advice, or something.

2006-12-11 09:05:59 · 5 answers · asked by ashley 1

2006-12-11 09:05:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

how does one affect the other?

2006-12-11 09:00:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a question for gay people. Do you really need a piece of paper to be married? I'm gay and this morning i realized that i dont need the government to tell me that im married to the person i love, which at the moment is no one. But i was sent a bulliten on MySpace called "How The Gring Stole Gay Marriage", and the moral was that gay people dont need a piece of paper to tell the that they are married, they just need to know it in their hearts.

2006-12-11 08:59:49 · 35 answers · asked by Steve 1

i am the other "person" in a relationship that part of me wants to keep and part of me does not like. He has a boyfriend. His relationshipe is w/ his boyfriend. I am not a guy. we do things together physically sometimes. But most of the time we just hang together. His boyfriend is the seriously educated professional, who takes my guy w/ him to places like trinidad and costa rica. Im lucky to get a ride to the store. But I enjoy his company. I am not nieve I just need someone to tell me that they are in a similar situation. be gentle. I have some decisions to make and your input would be appreciated

2006-12-11 08:50:45 · 12 answers · asked by wannaknowBT 2

2006-12-11 08:38:34 · 33 answers · asked by adidasboi382 1

I think this would be an interesting 3 way relationship that may be able to work....2 Bi men and a woman....

what do you think

2006-12-11 08:38:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-11 08:31:21 · 10 answers · asked by Pushpendra C 1

Everyone is telling me to wake up and smell the roses! they say once gay always gay but, the confusing thing about it is my X claims that was a part of his life he never wants to revisit (mistake) and he is not gay! but i am all confused, then i recently saw the movie brokeback mountain and that just put the icning on the cake for me because that movie persuaded me to come to the conclusion that he is still GAY! PLEASE someone help me as you can tell unfortunately i still LOVE him :( but i REFUSE to have be with him if he is GAY

2006-12-11 08:26:37 · 9 answers · asked by fashionista 1

the amount of homeophobics on this site is astronomical.im a straight lady but i have a gay best friend.who is the nicest person i have ever met.what is youtr b....y problem with gays?

2006-12-11 08:14:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is a reminder necessary to not feed the trolls?

They only continue to post while they get responces. The more responces, good or bad, the more they post insulting, harassing, bullying, threatening and advocating of violence.

REPORT AND MOVE ON

Just wondering if a reminder was needed?

2006-12-11 08:12:00 · 11 answers · asked by DEATH 7

2006-12-11 07:56:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-11 07:52:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

are really gay themselves?

2006-12-11 07:45:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

and they just keep on and on pursuing the one that rejected them?

2006-12-11 07:17:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

The relationship between us and our fathers can be pretty intense, particularly if one is a "butch" lesbian of color. Sometimes, in such relationships, there is a struggle of sorts as both parties may fight over the limited power allowed by the dominate society. Also, I see this in working class families. I was just wondering if anyone out there has explored this topic by way of images.

2006-12-11 07:09:03 · 5 answers · asked by planxt 1

the upside down triangle.....what does it mean?

2006-12-11 07:05:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've noticed this recently, most of the scenarios are built upon the self-realization, and coming out of the "teenager lesbian girls around their 15-16's. Do you think the film industry is going to exceed its limits and come to the adults someday?
There ARE some very important and interesting films with bright scenarios too but as far as i 've seen they form the minority..What is your opinion?

2006-12-11 07:04:02 · 2 answers · asked by ddyk 3

everyone at school says im gay because of the way i look but do i beleive them

2006-12-11 07:02:39 · 25 answers · asked by alan_howe89 1

I don't want to alienate the people I work with or cause a rift between them and I but I would like to bring her. She's dominant so it's obvious were lovers. I'm really confused.

2006-12-11 07:00:02 · 14 answers · asked by Treat429 4

he doesnt look gay but he has attitude....weird

2006-12-11 06:35:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Gay Men - how realistic was Brokeback Mountain? Are man on man relationships really like that?

2006-12-11 06:20:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not a lesbian, I actually have a boyfriend of 3 years but I do have sorta a fantasy to be with a girl....?
I'm just a little confused and would like to know what your first experience was like!
thanks in advance!

2006-12-11 06:14:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

There seems to be soo much information out there, I'd like for someone who might be knowledgeable to point me in the right direction. Thanks.

2006-12-11 06:10:31 · 8 answers · asked by JOSH T 1

2006-12-11 06:09:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think he is

2006-12-11 06:05:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-11 05:58:30 · 21 answers · asked by slugz718 1

To get you to allow someone else to sleep with your partner.
An 'Indecent proposal' style question if you like.

2006-12-11 05:53:17 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6

I am a gay man and I know why I look there but, I have noticed several guys giving me and other guys the once over then keeping their eyes on the crotch area. All of these men can't be gay or bisexual. So are the just checking out the competition or what?

2006-12-11 05:47:25 · 24 answers · asked by kbrearley2001 2

2006-12-11 05:46:09 · 8 answers · asked by debbie t 1