Ok, so, i'm a 15 year old girl, and i'm bi but only a couple of people know. Anyway, i've been in love with this girl for 8 years. I know i have no chance with her because she's straight and she has a bf who she's in love with. I just need someone to tell me how to get over. It's usually easy for me, i've had a lot of crushes in the past, but i've always been able to "turn off my feelings" for them if i needed to. However, i can't stop loving this girl. I'm literally in love with her. I know it's not just a crush because i've had crushes before, this is a different. I met her in elementary school because we were on the same soccer and basketball teams for a while. I was actually friends with her until 8th grade or so, i guess we just went out seperate ways and got differnet friends. I actually had a crush on her when i first met her, then i fell in love with her. She has a really great personality and she's gorgeous. I just need help getting over her, or some advice, or something.
2006-12-11 09:05:59 · 5 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
William T, i'm not too young to know i'm bi, trust me, and i have had boufriends before, and although i had strong feeling for them, my feelings for this girl have always been stronger.
1991 Kinda Guy, the answer to your question is no, why do you think that?
daniela j, i guess i could throw out pictures i have of her, but i can't stay away from her. I live in a small town, so i see her around, and i see her in school because she's in some of my classes.
Jeff P, i have been doing all those things, so i guess there is no solution to my problem
2006-12-12 07:59:53 · update #1
it's always tough to love someone you can't have. best way to get over her is to keep busy. live a full and active life. keep playing sports, get into music, hang with family and friends..
and try to get your focus on someone else.. if you are able to find someone else to date (either guy or girl), then the excitement of someone new should help you get over her.
you might also try just talking to one of your closest friends.. it might not solve anything, but it will help to just have someone to talk to about her..
2006-12-11 10:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a guy that treats you right you are much to young to actually be Bi or gay you don't know what you want in life you need to figure it out soon or you will be a failer just find a good guy and get over her!!
2006-12-11 17:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by William T 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
well i have to say the way to get rid of her is throw away whatever pictures you have of her and stay faraway from her as possible and that will solve your problem.
2006-12-11 17:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by daniela j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you go to senn high school?And is your last name brendel?
2006-12-11 17:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by Being myself© 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no way....
2006-12-11 17:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by beauty mirna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋