Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - December 2006

I am 20 years old and I am still unclear as to what my sexual preference is. I though that coming here would be helpful.
In middle school, I first came across gay porn. I wasn't disgusted i found it very intriguing that a man could be with another man. And my fascination with that, and my love to stay out of the box contributed to this fascination.
I have a girlfriend now, and possibly one of the most amazing people in the world, but I have had this strong attraction to men right now. I watch gay porn sometimes, but its usually things like straight men who have chosen to have gay sex. And when I stop to think about whether or not I'd be able to have sex with another man, the answer is usually no.
However, my sexual desire for women is fading. But is not really being replaced with something stable, because i dont know if I'm gay or not.
What is going on? Im too old not to know.
Am i just trying to be different?
Am I gay? Straight? bisexual?asexual?
Help! r there books to rea

2006-12-16 06:08:00 · 6 answers · asked by smoooothguy05 1

I wonder which one people tend to accept more. I accept homosexuality/bisexuality more because i know people who are. It would be hard for me to accept trans sexuality because i have never met anyone and i am not used to that a lot. But now i am starting to accept it more and find it normal and common. What about you guys?

2006-12-16 06:04:39 · 20 answers · asked by DARIA. - JOINED MAY 2006 7

I'm dating a former stripper/call girl..FYI she is clean..anyways she and I have been together for almost 1 yr and a half..she has cutt of all ties to her past life and has done so for the whole time I have known her..she has had past b/f's and even a g/f but she was never faithful to with either one of them but now says she is because she never loved them or that they never could satisfy her sexual needs..we make love about 50 or more times a night everytime..well thats my question..serious answers appreciated..

2006-12-16 05:59:54 · 6 answers · asked by Charmer 4

That is the optimal situation. Fact. Men and women are VERY different--despite what some left-wingers maintain--and in a parental relationship, each brings a unique, integral, and absolutely necessary perspective.

Of course, not everyone grows up with a mom and a dad, through various circumstances... death of one or both parents, divorce, etc. It is possible to be a healthy, well-adjusted adult having grown up with one parent, or different relatives, or gay parents, or in a foster home, etc...

But--ideally, having a mother and a father (your OWN!) raise you IS the best way. It is the way of the world, of nature. There is no arguing this.

Heterosexual couples should take precedence in adoption over gay couples... unless they're unfit; a financially well-off, well-adjusted gay couple should take precedence over a straight couple who were abusive or alcoholic, etc... but all things being equal--the straight couple must take priority, as their partnership IS the best, the ideal.

2006-12-16 05:11:44 · 18 answers · asked by Quang 2

2006-12-16 04:57:02 · 5 answers · asked by Liz D 1

2006-12-16 04:56:30 · 5 answers · asked by Saeed S 1

2006-12-16 04:56:03 · 2 answers · asked by Liz D 1

I would like to know if my boyfriend's best friend meets me and approves of me? Is it really important to my boyfriend to know that I made a good impression on his friend? I met his best mate a week ago and my boyfriend said in a jocky way that I should make the effort to make a good impression.. I think I did as his friend made effort with me.

2006-12-16 04:45:47 · 3 answers · asked by violet b 1

I have had a friend for years and he's the greatest guy but he won't come out about his feelings for men. I can see his interest in men yet he is still dating girls. But he is always unhappy. What's a good way to let him know it's okay for him to be himself?

2006-12-16 04:34:04 · 12 answers · asked by hthr_1974 4

I had an hours long debate the other night with a good friend. WE argued over weather strippers slept with a lot of men at the club i maintained that most of the girls at the clubs do not as it would put a crimp in their income. She said that indeed they do and often for a little extra money.
Am I in a state of denial or is she way off?

2006-12-16 04:31:40 · 15 answers · asked by Robert E 2

2006-12-16 04:21:29 · 15 answers · asked by @tipster 1

How many guys, including yourself, seem drawn to a guy more for his wealth than his looks or personality?

Do you know other Gay guys who almost exclusively seem to be on the lookout for a sugardaddy, or a man with lots of $$$?

Be honest.

2006-12-16 03:44:55 · 7 answers · asked by Middy S 2

Is there proof that the theory “A girl knows what a girl wants” dealing with oral sex, is true? Or is it just all in their head because they are so aroused that one of the same sex is performing oral sex on them. Can a guy not be better then a lesbian at oral sex? After all it is all technique correct?

2006-12-16 03:41:24 · 6 answers · asked by Snapple817 1

This gay bashing going on in Yahoo! Answers is just enough bullshhit I can take. Does anyone else agree??

Should we just drop out of Yahoo! Answers and go somewhere else, only allowing glbt?

2006-12-16 03:41:21 · 15 answers · asked by Greg H 1

Ok well im 14 and im a straight guy, and i know it. but for some reason outta no where one night i started thinkin "wait what if ur gay" i started thinkin this because i cant keep a relationship for moe then 3 weeks except for one which last 8 months. ive always been in love with girls and i always fall for them. sence i was like 9. and im a worryer. keep that in mind. i have feelings for a girl right now matter a fact. im not attracted to any guys that i know of either. and the thought of experamenting with a guy to find out just makes me sick. am i gay? how do u know if ur truely gay?

2006-12-16 03:38:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

should i tell my best friend of 3 years that i'm bi? we did things once (we were drunk tho) and haven't really talked about it since (she did say that she told her ex-boyfriend, tho) . . . i do like her in that way, but have been able to keep that to myself (it doesn't interfere with our relationship as friends). I just feel like I'm lying to her by her not knowing that I like girls as well as boys!

2006-12-16 03:27:58 · 4 answers · asked by _ 2

They always hug each other and kiss each other on the cheek. And one time they did this "thing" and they said "nobody saw that!"

2006-12-16 03:18:36 · 12 answers · asked by FemiKuti 2

2006-12-16 03:10:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-16 02:30:19 · 11 answers · asked by pukroy 1

Please serious answers only. What ever your answer is, make sure that you write an explanation to it.. If religous comments please make it short... Thanks

2006-12-16 02:21:24 · 12 answers · asked by KingGrone 2

He ask me alot of questions about sexuality..and then when i told him about it...he started to leave and ignore me.What is wrong with me?

2006-12-16 02:03:25 · 3 answers · asked by truth set free 1

So this one guy dumped me over a year ago. I got even with him (I though I still like him) So, I moved on but he got jealous of those guys on myspace that flirt with me or vice versa (even ones aren't really my type, Or Guys that liked just for friends).Thoug I'm going into a new relationship with someone else better.(Though I admit proposely making that guy jealous) But I kinda feel that this guy should move on (since he whoring himself to other people) How keep this guy form ruining my chances form finding someoe else better,Since he never had much of any interest in me then why would he become so jealous anyone being friendly with me sometimes?

2006-12-16 01:44:12 · 4 answers · asked by Slaide2 3

for friends or whatever

2006-12-16 01:43:32 · 3 answers · asked by EUGENE M 2

Would it just be a matter of putting on a burkah?

2006-12-16 01:25:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

is guys always think of sex or the girlsdo thing alltime about sex
{teenage }

2006-12-16 01:04:12 · 4 answers · asked by sunny 1

2006-12-16 00:49:20 · 12 answers · asked by s1gurl4you 2

I've always loved drag performance, and now I want to do it myself.
I'm just worried that it's so catty and competitive... all I want to do is be fabulous on stage, I don't want to fight with anyone!
Does anyone know how to get started doing drag???

2006-12-16 00:24:23 · 5 answers · asked by greyhavens 1

2006-12-16 00:09:16 · 13 answers · asked by thomasgilliland 1

2006-12-15 23:46:51 · 4 answers · asked by kb67359 1

A Christmas tree doesn't care if you had other Christmas trees in the past.
Even a small Christmas tree gives satisfaction.
A Christmas tree always looks good, even with the lights off.
A Christmas tree has pretty balls.
A Christmas tree doesn't follow you around begging if you decide to choose a different one.
A Christmas tree stays up for 12 days and nights.
A Christmas tree is always happy with its size.
A Christmas tree doesn't care if you sit around in your pajamas and watch soap operas all day.
A Christmas tree doesn't get mad if you break its balls.
You can throw a Christmas tree out when it starts to get old and droopy.
You don't have to put up with a Christmas tree all year!

2006-12-15 23:46:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous