I am 20 years old and I am still unclear as to what my sexual preference is. I though that coming here would be helpful.
In middle school, I first came across gay porn. I wasn't disgusted i found it very intriguing that a man could be with another man. And my fascination with that, and my love to stay out of the box contributed to this fascination.
I have a girlfriend now, and possibly one of the most amazing people in the world, but I have had this strong attraction to men right now. I watch gay porn sometimes, but its usually things like straight men who have chosen to have gay sex. And when I stop to think about whether or not I'd be able to have sex with another man, the answer is usually no.
However, my sexual desire for women is fading. But is not really being replaced with something stable, because i dont know if I'm gay or not.
What is going on? Im too old not to know.
Am i just trying to be different?
Am I gay? Straight? bisexual?asexual?
Help! r there books to rea
2006-12-16 06:08:00 · 6 answers · asked by smoooothguy05 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sweetie, I think you are gay. Don't question your sexuality so much, it will make you nuts. Just go with your instincts and please be honest with any women that you go out with so that they are aware and don't get hurt. I wish you lots of luck and luv.
2006-12-16 06:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by el 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking you are gay, but you just might be bi-sexual. Don't lose your head over this. It takes time; go slow. Think straight (No pun intended). The thing is you need to find out what makes you happy and with whom do you want to share your life...
I'm gay, and never had any sexual desires for women. But that doesn't mean that I crave for sex with men? I must say I'm not crazy about the idea, thought I am curious. But I'm sure I'm meant to be with men, even if its not for sex... Don't over-think. Good luck.
2006-12-16 06:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by Silver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 24 yrs. old and I just recently admitted to myself that I am bisexual. I have been fascinated with women since I was in grade school. I have been married, divorced, and am currently engaged. I have two children. My fiancee knows that I am bisexual, and it took some getting used to for both of us( we were already engaged by the time I admitted it to myself and to him) but we are both okay with it. I love him enough to not worry about whether or not I am missing out on anything by being with a man instead of a woman. If you worry about possibly missing out on something, then you are not with the right person for you. Do not worry about the other person's gender, just look for the person that you know you are meant to be with--you will know it is the right person when you stop worrying about what you are. Just be yourself, love yourself, and accept yourself. The rest will fall into place.
2006-12-16 06:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by Econolodge N 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think of sexuality isn't that plenty distinctive from our tastes in music, foodstuff and vogue. yet we've related a spiritual concept to sexuality. Sexuality is formed by using diverse sociological, psychological, organic and organic factors. Even the regulation, peer stress, early existence stories, faith and a super type of alternative factors artwork mutually to define a definite style of sexuality. because of the fact of this human beings have differing/changing sexual behaviours. it incredibly is a lifelong technique. it incredibly is continuously changing. So, it is not achieveable to categorize or label human beings in to sexual communities. Sexual behaviour is incredibly complicated. even nevertheless one would sense like straight away, he/she would desire to consciously or unconsciously get same intercourse factors of interest. there are a number of heterosexuals who get pedophiliac factors of interest (yet they do no longer inevitably would desire to act upon them). there are a number of that although perceive as gay, get involved in the choice intercourse. Sexuality isn't something you're yet something you do. it would desire to be very fluid. i in my view do no longer think of that sexuality is an inborn features even nevertheless there are organic and organic factors that helps, yet they're in simple terms predispositions. they are not decisive.
2016-10-05 09:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by erlebach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you are a part time gay. You will probably only help out if they are busy
2006-12-16 06:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by burtbb0912 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are Bisexual....Consult a doctor...
2006-12-16 06:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by ashwin_hariharan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋