should i tell my best friend of 3 years that i'm bi? we did things once (we were drunk tho) and haven't really talked about it since (she did say that she told her ex-boyfriend, tho) . . . i do like her in that way, but have been able to keep that to myself (it doesn't interfere with our relationship as friends). I just feel like I'm lying to her by her not knowing that I like girls as well as boys!
2006-12-16 03:27:58 · 4 answers · asked by _ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Tough question. But if you are so close to her, you should know how she would react, or at least have a preety good idea. Approach it with discretion and caution and sensitivity, in small steps, and try to gauge her potential reaction... :)
2006-12-16 07:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by Donelle Leslie Deuel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she seems like the person that doesnt hate gays or lesbians, than thats a start.
Next what you should do, is just tell her. Go easy though, say something like:
"Well I just realized this a while ago....
"I dont know, I think Im starting to....
or
"Im bi." :)
Good luck! I did it once, and after that I just went soaring through people .
2006-12-16 11:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by Greg H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friendship is 3 years strong, I would recommend following your heart and geting it off your chest. It is true though, that when a friendship turns sexual, things really aren't quite the same as before. As long as you're ready for that possibility, go for it!
2006-12-16 12:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by Ricky J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I guess you should tell her cause she looks like she doesn´t have any problem with that... so you are going to feel better... and if she´s your best friend she´s gonna love you the way you are!
good luck!
2006-12-16 12:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋