Cultures & Groups - 25 October 2006

(This is taken from an answer. And it made me wonder)
I often wonder why people don't. Is it because of the etho's that to declare oneself non-monogomous means that (and this in no way is my personal opinion, in fact so far from it its not funny) a person is "easy", "a man-whore" etc, or any other of the so-called mainstream's controlling language to denigrate people who have chosen to not be monogomous. Or is it something, to do with gay and lesbian people trying to advertise to the world, that they are moral upstanding citizens? And why, is a person who chooses to have more than one sexual partner somehow labelled immoral or wrong?

2006-10-25 23:56:54 · 3 answers · asked by Orditz 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

hi there, there was a guy i was dating for 2 weeks and i liked him very much. he showed me he is interested too so i did put some hope that it might develop into something more serious.

he became very silent in the few last days. became weird and we ddnt talk from then. he was kinda rude and ignoring me.

i felt sad and hurt

in these 2 weeks i was veryfaithfull to him even if we were not BF. while i found out from a lot of different ppl that in these 2 weeks or any other day, there was no day passed without him having minimum one person in his bed. that shocked me. couldnt stop my tears from falling. its been like 2 months now. 3 days ago i made a huge pool party in my house and over 70 person showed up, and between the crouds i saw him. How dare he comes to my house without invititaion from me. how dare he stay there and even ddnt say thnx or bye when he left. Such an a.ss.hole.
a day later after the party, i started crying, i couldnt really help it, GUYs, it hurts a lot.

2006-10-25 23:05:00 · 12 answers · asked by Boyz Charm 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I ask this question because the Gay and Lesbian section of Yahoo Answers seem to be full of hate at the moment....

2006-10-25 22:31:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

When a coworker screams at you and accuses you of wrong doings and the manager won't let you stick up for yourself. What are my rights?

2006-10-25 22:12:30 · 5 answers · asked by mom of 3 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I just happen to wonder which public restroom do cross gender use? Ok, there's a GUY who's considered a girl that just started working here, he looks like a girl but u could tell he's a guy, and I tried to see which restroom he goes into but haven't had any luck. There's a gay dude also that uses the guy's restroom, but that's obvious. So, where do he/she and she/he go when they have to go? I will try to ask someone I know but my curiosity just occured here at work. I've recently found out "she" was a guy.

2006-10-25 21:19:04 · 17 answers · asked by abc d 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

1. Women walking down the street topless
2. Women doing chores topless
3. Women at a social event topless
4. Women being topless while participating in some sort of activity

2006-10-25 21:16:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

If a younger woman told you she liked you, what are the chances you might reciprocate the feelings?

I recently told someone how much I liked her. We have been chatting back and forth via e-mail. She said she would like to get to know me. I don't know if it's just for friendship or if it could amount to anything else. She's probably 10-15 yrs older than me, but I feel like I connect with her. What are the chances she likes me back? Do you think an age barrier could get in the way?

(serious answers only plz. Telling me I am going to hell will not work seeing as how I do not believe in it. I have my own spiritual path I am following and am perfectly fine the way it is working out with me. So, I will equal your hatred with prayers of love if you direct any towards me.)

2006-10-25 20:44:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I'm 22 and Ive been in love with a woman for 7 yearswould die for her and give her the world an still have fantasies of marrying her, but I also find myself heavily attracted to men. On a whole, I find myself much more attracted to males than females and a lot of times when masturbating, it takes SO much to get off to women, (sometimes even her) whereas almost instantly when thinking of a man. While the answer might seem easy based on that, I'm still heavily in love with this girl and crazy about her... she's the most beautiful person I've ever seen and would love to spend the rest of my life with her. So this can make for some confusion. Based on all this, what would you define my orientation?

2006-10-25 20:19:23 · 25 answers · asked by Reginald VelJohnson 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

it is posible for a lsbian to have a girlfriend? how? and how can i know that shes lesbian to? where can I meet lesbian peolple?

2006-10-25 20:06:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

a bud and I have a true brokeback relationship.. im like Jack and he's more ennis. were in the "going our own way, and finding ourselves stage" both in our early twenties. I used to hangout with him every single day.. now he moved away to another country. He emails me a lot, but I miss talking to him, and having him around, especially tonight. How do I stop this! I feel like so emotional over this, and hes just chillin..

2006-10-25 20:00:15 · 12 answers · asked by dustin m 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Just Curious, I had a roomate that was a gay republican (he isnt for Gay Marriage or Gay Rights)

My Views is that if you are a gay republican, as good intentions as you may have, you are supporting a very homophobic agenda that will eventually bring you to the very knees you got on, that kissed Bushs A.S.S ~Just My View~

2006-10-25 19:53:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

sometimes, I found someone intersting in streets, roads, malls, market or pool for swimming.

and if i ask a man "are u gay", maybe he will kill me or smash me.
so, please teach me the polite way to ask...

or do yu have tricks to figure out if somebody is gay.
if u have a trick, please send me a email.
i don`t want the gay hater know the tricks.

2006-10-25 18:57:24 · 21 answers · asked by Signor Lam Vacitu 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I've met new male friends who are always teasing each other about being gay or having gay-like attitudes. This is just a game among them, but I feel very unconfortable because I am gay, so I just can't decide if I should remain silent or make a stand and tell them I'm gay.

2006-10-25 18:37:00 · 26 answers · asked by Santi Pazmi 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I'm going on a big trip in Europe... What are are the best lesbian clubs / bars in these 4 cities?
Would love to have company for clubbing too , if you're interested in meeting up let me know!

2006-10-25 18:34:12 · 3 answers · asked by girl79 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I dont understand why these people visit these forums to prove a point(nobody ever agrees) Point out the "wrong" things we gay people are doing; you name it: Anal sex, marriage, adoption, being sexual, lesbians, the list goes on. Are these people still in the closet? So why explore this forum, to see whats going on? Why not post on a "Straight" forum of opinions and relationships. I thought this forum was Gay chit-chat and boyfriend/girlfriend problems? Why do I like to put my pudding pop, into someones pudding? Why are gay people genetically prepositioned to listen to Madonna?(disregard the last question. HA!)

2006-10-25 18:30:39 · 4 answers · asked by zuegma1977 4 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

As a white, I lived in Arkansas in a black community. I went to church with blacks and worked with them. I went to their homes on a few occassions and invited many of them to mine. They would not associate with me except in church. I truly asked to be a part of their every-day life but this was refused. I admittedly was raised in the deep south but my family taught me against prejudice.I was convinced that I did not know what bigotry was and yet I was myself the object of bigotry. I am old now and still have no answer to my question. Why can't we resolve the question of racismn in America? Is there anyone out there of the black race who wants too. Because this old woman would like an answer before I pass on.

2006-10-25 18:29:00 · 17 answers · asked by martha d 5 in Other - Cultures & Groups

so, why do people use the "n" word and all the words of similar meaning, when it has such a bad history & wrap. i especially don't understand why black people think they can use it when they are the ones who discouraged the use of the word anyhow. isn't that racist in itself? shouldn't word usage be equal among races along with everything else in the ideal world, so shouldn't we strive towards that?

2006-10-25 18:26:23 · 14 answers · asked by christy 6 in Other - Cultures & Groups

mm...

are there any gay male that really act like a straight?
for example, he do not act like sissy.
love sports and anything that man love to do.

anyway, HE REALLY LOOK LIKE A STRAIGHT MALE

2006-10-25 18:23:32 · 21 answers · asked by Signor Lam Vacitu 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I'm at a cross for the first time in the matter.. i was always for "marriage" because thats how I was raised.. and when i came out, thats what was pumped into me at Pride and such.. so I need some opinions!

2006-10-25 17:55:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I respect my elders most of the time just for making it to their age. I am 34. What is the best way to face all of the challenges that life throws you?

2006-10-25 17:45:21 · 7 answers · asked by LifeMatrix2012 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-10-25 17:28:19 · 4 answers · asked by Aeyna D 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Because the doghouse is for everyone sometimes, right?

I have to say, my abilities to sing and cook have saved me far too many times. Singing--Willie Nelson's "Always on my Mind" is a forever favorite. Cooking--I'm vegetarian, and will only touch raw meat for her if she's really bummed out or I've been absolutely hateful. This is when I start asking my mom how she made her turkey tetrazzini or look up things to do with beef.

If meat and country love songs can't at least start to fix it, I'm in *real* trouble.

How about y'all?

2006-10-25 17:26:09 · 18 answers · asked by GreenEyedLilo 7 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

White/Pale
Light Brown
Tanned/Golden/Olive
Dark/Espresso

2006-10-25 17:21:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Who are the most exotic/beautiful??

Asians/Pacific Islanders
-Indians
-Chinese, Japanese, the Like.
Caucasians
Latinos/Hispanics
Africans/African Americans
Brazilian
Any South American
Any European

2006-10-25 17:20:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-10-25 16:56:03 · 18 answers · asked by Milton Egbert 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

anything goes.

2006-10-25 16:55:44 · 7 answers · asked by shyboy 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I want to be open about this feeling, but I'm afraid to scare her away. I guess I'm hoping she would participate.

2006-10-25 16:54:04 · 12 answers · asked by Calvin 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-10-25 16:52:42 · 14 answers · asked by Milton Egbert 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I know this could be asked elsewhere but my interest is mainly with our community.
I, Catriona Isobel Rose P was with my beloved Gwenneth B for 42 years. We had our tributes, flowers with breakfast in bed for birthdays, gifts of plants for our garden. Caring and sharing household duties and particularly supporting each other in the face of ignorance and hostility. At our office one bright young thing said "Oh look, here come the spinsters ! Couldn;t get a man to save themselves!" Gwen smiled and asked "Well fellow spinster are we as one?"
The one occasion of which I am deeply ashamed was my visit to
her grave. I had been away on long leave and she had died from a virulent cancer. Her lovely family had claimed her remains and buried them under a stone bearing "UNKNOWN TO GOD". I failed Gwen in that I could not change this. I can only hope that what held us together will let her forgive me. My dearest on earth, give me your kiss. Rose P.

2006-10-25 16:44:11 · 15 answers · asked by rose p 7 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-10-25 16:38:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups