I am a pre-op female to male transsexual, and I have been dating an older, lesbian woman. However, although I admire the fact that she DOES see me as a male, she also seems to think that I should think and behave like the stereotypical views of men in general. Thus being that I should be ready for sex 24/7 and NOT turn down an offer for sex, and also do whatever she wants because I MUST have an alterior motive of sex, which is not true by the way. However, all this sexual innuendo, and the feeling that I HAVE to fulfill her sexual frustration has left me LESS than sexually aroused or sexually attracted to her anymore. It seems all we do or talk about is sex. I'm a full time college student, and to be honest, I don't have the TIME for relationship, or even sex most of the time, so, I told her how I felt, and she just got up and left and didn't say anything. Did I do the right thing?
2006-09-10
11:35:32
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Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender