i've been with my 'wife' for 3 years; i've known her for 19 years. over the past 6 years, she's been battling a huge drinking problem. very recently, she's been diagnosed as bipolar. i've been very supportive. very supportive, even after she lost her job. she's verbally abusive when she's drinking and throw things and punches holes in the wall. she started new meds before christmas, which is a huge step because she finally admitted she needs help. she's seeing a shrink; two, actually. the problem is that she keeps promising she'll change, then drinks, doesn't take her meds & insults me. we had a long talk on new year's day about starting over and moving back home (i think that's what has triggered the depression). but that night and since, she's been her usual drunk self. it used to be that anytime she was sober, i tried to be happy & have fun with her, so she'd want to be sober; but now, i'm just mad & hurt. what would you do? stay or go? why?
2007-01-07
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