I live in one of those old-timey full-service buildings with a doorman, and at Christmas I always tip the guy on the day shift pretty heavily because I work at home and he does a lot for me during the day. I left an Xmas card with a fairly hefty check inside on his desk with his name prominently displayed on the envelope. According to my bank, the check already cleared. This is the first Xmas at our building for this particular doorman; in the past, I've always received a very nice thank-you card from the other doormen.
Should I ask him if he received my card? At some level, I feel like I'm "thanking" him with my gift, so it seems superfluous and selfish on my part to receive an acknowledgement that he got it. I'm torn about whether I should say anything to him. He obviously got the check and the card.
2006-12-27
12:09:08
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