2006-12-27 12:05:29 · 9 answers · asked by Marissa W 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Only if you are on a long-term relationship and that person doesn't mind you calling him/her every single day.
You'll have to agree that when someone calls you ALL THE TIME it appears a little desperate, insecure and childish. I sure don't like when guys I'm dating call me all the time...
Good luck!
2006-12-27 12:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how long you've been dating. If you've just recently met someone in the the "butterfly times" (two people are in love with each other, and can't stop calling or talking to each other, or fantasizing/thinking about each other all day...etc., etc.,) then this is normal.
This excessive calling is ok, as long as both of you call each other almost equally.
For e.g If you are trying to call your date 5 times a day. And next day if you don't call your date, if your date calls you 3-5 times a day. Even though it may look mutually annoying from a third party perspective it is acceptable . It's the feeling of love, that makes us want to be closer to that person all the time. This butterfly period usually lasts anywhere from 3-6 months, if you guys live close to each other and meet almost everyday or every other day, or live together. This time will vary upto a year or more, if this is a long distance relationship and see each other only once every month or once every few weeks.
Use the above formula, to just balance the calling between both.
If you call your date 10 times a day, and if your date only calls you only once the next day, if you don't initiate anything, then you're pretty much not giving space in the relationship.
Most people will sometime come back and tell you if they feel like you're violating their space too much by calling too much. If you ever get this signal, just stop and let the other person initiate calls and drastically reduce your calling to just once a day or so.
Once the butterfly times are over, everything will automatically subside. Use the technique above to control your urges and give the other person to initiate conversations periodically.
2006-12-27 20:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by thewiseone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If your in a long distance relationship, calling him one times a week is enough, and he might bothered if you call him everyday. You can always send text messages.
2006-12-28 03:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by tennisgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on the type of relationship you two have... I would say ask him how he feels about it... If you don't want to ask you could not call him for a couple of days, and map out how frequently he calls you, and you could match that... I honestly would suggest that you talk to him about it and see how he feels...
2006-12-27 20:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on the relationship. if you guys are exclusive than it is normal to want to talk to the other person everyday. i get irratated if i dont hear from my boyfriend in a day, at least a text or something
2006-12-27 20:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say no. If I were called everyday by someone it would annoy the hell out of me.
2006-12-27 21:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by Julia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That would be very needy and clingy to do. Let the other call you every now and then.
2006-12-27 20:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO don't smother the other person.
2006-12-27 22:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, how boring.
2006-12-27 20:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by It's been awhile 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋