O.k. so I have like three close gay guy friend's. Seem's like they all get jealous of each other. I don't know what to do? I try to spend time equally with all of them but it's not enough. Someone always get's offended or has a little attitude. Like "Oh you were with him!" I also have lot's of heterosexual friend's that I spend time with. I guess my question is why do these gay guys not like each other instead of becoming friend's and then we could all hang out?
2006-12-27 12:07:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If they are truly your friends they will get over it and move on. Gay men are like cats......very territorial.
2006-12-27 12:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably aggravated and fearful that you're shifting into course of your immediately chum than you're to him. youthful gays in college don't have a lot of acquaintances, fantastically those who study about them and are nonetheless fantastic with being acquaintances. He is also somewhat fearful that you'll slip up and allow it out that he's gay. that occurs extremely in many circumstances to us, both at the same time as a chum receives mad at us, or they anticipate that because they are pleased with it, anybody else will be....i'm right here to inform you they received't be. someone we believe, goofs and suddenly we are out of the closet beforehand we are waiting to handle the abuse that bypass alongside with being openly gay and under no circumstances waiting to regulate your ecosystem (I recommend, he won't be able to easily go away college and bypass someplace else. see you later as he's nameless he can get with the help of the chore of faculty and turning out to be up until eventually he's able to help his self and decide who to be round.) do not study romance into it. that is a customary mistake females make in those circumstances. He does love you. he's not "in love" with you. gay boys basically tend to be extra affectionate to their "girlfriends" than immediately boys. If there is any jealousy occurring that is basically over your courting with the different boy, both because he's fearful about dropping your friendship, or because he feels some romantic thoughts in course of the different boy.
2016-12-01 05:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are the ones who should answer this question. you can probably trick all of them into spending time together by saying, "i'm a having a get together at my house and i would like it if you could come." don't tell either of them that one will be at this get together. and really, if they like you that much, then they will get off their petty differences to make them like each other.
2006-12-27 12:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your gay friends have big egos and get jelous of each other. Like straight people, not all gay people get along with each other. You probably had straight males you didn't get along with, and wouldn't even sit in the same room with!
2006-12-27 13:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by roxusan 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It sounds like they "like" you more than "just LIKE you." Read between the lines. : )
2006-12-27 13:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋