Psychology - October 2007

What does it mean when a woman:

*Arches her head back and strokes her neck (while you're talking to her)
*Always touches your arm or hugs you or plays with your hair.
*Stares at you from a distance and then smiles when you notice her.
*Gazes deep in your eyes.
*Compliments you all the time.
*Asks for your home address.
*Gives you her cell number.
*Fixes her hair in front of you.
*Gives you little notes/stickys that say stuff like "You are wonderful".
*At times will act completely distant, But most of the time is always touching or complimenting you or something.
*Acts upset sometimes if you don't talk to her or look at her.
*Seems concerned if you seem to be having a bad day. And always says that you have so much potential to do anything.

I'm pretty sure I know what all this means. But I just wanted some other people's opinions. Also, I wouldn't do anything. But the woman is 50, married, and has 2 grown children. You think she's just playing?

* 21 minutes ago
* - 3 days left to answer.

Additional Details

19 minutes ago
Or do you think she cared for me? Also, I'm 19. I no longer see her anymore though.

2007-10-23 11:34:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

if its true, is there any way to improve it.

2007-10-23 11:32:34 · 6 answers · asked by jahnu 2

isn't it SO embarassing? how can i redeem myself?

2007-10-23 11:18:14 · 3 answers · asked by Glitter 5

These fantasies could be anything and could range from hitting a game winning home run in the world series to something of a sexual nature. Or from being a war hero to having a perfect family?

Do they hinder or enhance your life in some way? Do they ever reach a point where they can stifle your reality? Or aren't our fantasies usually nothing more than a harmless ‘hobby’?

So, would some of you like to share with us your favorite fantasies?

And please keep it clean here, keep it PG rated because this is a family community.

2007-10-23 10:55:12 · 9 answers · asked by Doc Watson 7

Sorry if this is long, going to be detailed.

I'm 26, I've never had sex. I'm with a girl now who I've known for 8 years and she had always been interested in me. We both decided finally to try and take it up a notch. When the moment finally came, I was shaking, I panicked a bit, and could not get an erection. After 3 hours of just cuddling etc, I realized I was worthless. I didn't want her to think I didn't find her attractive, and that made me feel worse.

As a child I had a mother who admitted she wished I had been a girl, and told me numerous times she didn't love me. This caused me to try and be the girl she wanted (I'm a guy) so that she'd accept me. At age 4 I was molested by a cousin and spent the rest of my childhood having my mother tell me that sex is wrong, and I should never put myself in that situation again. Basically that it was my own fault. We're no longer on speaking terms and haven't been for a few years.

What can I do to overcome this? Tell my doctor? If so, what?

2007-10-23 10:42:25 · 5 answers · asked by Tsubasa 2

2007-10-23 10:39:48 · 10 answers · asked by Garfield 2

2007-10-23 10:35:56 · 6 answers · asked by Kelly 3

This is a statement that I once heard, but never realized for myself whether or not it was true. I'm certain that if I could decide whether or not I believe she was abused. This could give me a whole new paradigm from which I could view the treatment of women on T.V. Or it could be a waste of time. For me having grown up watching stuff like this on T.V. has done nothing but raise questions in my social awarness.

2007-10-23 10:32:38 · 2 answers · asked by Ed 1

"For many children and adolescents, experimenting with petty crime is a part of growing up"

2007-10-23 10:29:44 · 4 answers · asked by wilhelm-ja@sbcglobal.net 1

How is that your eyes see’s the selfish person inside of me
I tried to hide it, I guess not too well
Feelings are gone
Just don’t care about anything anymore
LIVE OR DIE it’s all the same
Endless cycle of pain
No end in sight
When did I become this person?
Leave me to be in my dark hole
Manipulating minds take over me
Can’t see clearly
Existing never living
Black heart
Stupid silly *****
Never be anything
Fooling no one
Demons took my soul
I want to lie cold in the dirt
Never feeling again
Take me away sweet angel …
Arms open for you
I bleed for you
I want peace

2007-10-23 10:28:05 · 4 answers · asked by stillhot28 2

2007-10-23 09:10:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-23 08:49:02 · 4 answers · asked by mark s 1

Is this the most embarassing thing or WHAT?
so i am a junior in high school and today we had field day...and we played tug of war. my team decided that we would let go in the middle after a guy yells 1,2,3 so that the other team would fall. the guy yelled it, and i didn't hear him so i held onto the rope when everyone else released it and the other team pulled on it. so i fell and slid all on the floor! it was soooooooo embarassing! everyone was like aww it's okay, good job! and all this stuff but inside they're probably thinking about how much of a loser i am. and it's gonna be so awkward to see them all tomorrow. ahhhh, i wanna switch schools!!

2007-10-23 08:46:08 · 25 answers · asked by Glitter 5

2007-10-23 08:43:56 · 5 answers · asked by mushkybear 2

I have never ever had so many responses to some simple questions I have asked. Why ?

2007-10-23 07:26:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-23 07:11:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has anyone else experienced this?
Most parents I come across show an immense interest in the lives of their kids, from what they're studying in school, to where they're working, who they're dating, etc.
My parents seem to show absolutely no interest in our lives. It was as though they were completely oblivious to the fact that, surprise surprise, kids grow up, and we won't always just want to play catch in the backyard.
It goes further than that though. They're downright dead-weights. My brother is marrying into an Italian family next year, and the first thing out of my mother's mouth was a complaint about the location -- barely any congratulations!
Anyone else struggle with parents who seem inconvenienced to have children? Both of them make great money. Additionally, they haven't put any money aside for our weddings, educations, etc.
I'm independent and can manage on my own two feet, but it's simply about the fact that they don't seem to really care. It's a HASSLE for them.

2007-10-23 06:51:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-23 06:49:01 · 7 answers · asked by alaq n 1

I'm graduating this year, and i want to study psychology, just not sure which field.

2007-10-23 06:46:35 · 1 answers · asked by starry- eyed 4

For example: If i'm with my friends who i love and adore, and a new person comes into the group, whether this person is just stopping by or mingling with us for an extended amount of time, i tend to shy away from that person. However, i also feel slight jealousy to be honest, i hate that feeling, but it's hard to shake it off. I don't speak my mind out or make it obvious that i'm jealous though, for example i won't go and make the new person's life a living hell or annoy that person because i'm jealous, i'll carry on as normal, but inside, i feel slightly jealous.

2007-10-23 06:35:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

.....vibrating, the same thing happens when i talk with a girl , now i want to improve my life...please suggest me something!!!

2007-10-23 06:34:13 · 18 answers · asked by saurav_agrwal 3

In other words what is the person afraid of? A catastrophe or accident etc???

2007-10-23 06:33:13 · 9 answers · asked by Peter W 1

If you had a chance to change something about the world, what would it be and why?

Me, I would like to see everybody receive a good education. I don't it's right that people have to suffer their wholes lives when education can open new doors for them. If everybody had a chance to receive a free education of a good caliber, the world would be a much better place.

2007-10-23 06:33:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

In times, I used to throw lots of paper sheets into the bin.

And in order not to occupy too much space, I started folding paper... tearing it... and finally throwing it into the bin...

Since those times, I developed a strange quirk.

Very often I grab a piece of paper and I fold (and unfold) it, or I roll (and unroll) it.

I can't stay a very long time without doing this...

I often pick fliers in public places to 'satisfy my quirk'...

Very few people have made remarks to me about this, and no one has ever made a big deal out of this.

But my mother says this is abnormal, and I should see a psychiatrist.

Do you think this is that sick?

2007-10-23 06:25:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

For example, "Well, I have this interview next week for a GREAT job, but I don't want to talk about it too much yet and possibly jinx it"

2007-10-23 06:04:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

im an artist and i want to improve the effects my pictures have.
please include as many affects a color has as you know.
thank you

2007-10-23 05:52:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay. So I went to take a nap today. I know I'm sleeping, but I can see myself sleeping. And then when I try to wake up, I can't. It's like I'm paralyzed. It's creepy. This happens to me a lot...sometimes I hear someone talking to me and I look around and there is no one. When I was younger I once saw someone in the doorway (it was a woman, but I don't know who she was), but again, I was dreaming, but I vividly remember looking at the clock when I saw her in my dream and it said 9:56...I woke up later and looked at the clock and that was the time I woke up. And I always feel like I totally know what's going on, but I just can't move. What does this mean? I feel like I'm going nuts because I always feel like it's somehow significant, but I don't know why I would feel that way

2007-10-23 05:49:53 · 8 answers · asked by Kennedysma 4

can anyone think of ways that a virtual team can engage in teambuilding without meeting each other face to face?

2007-10-23 05:42:04 · 2 answers · asked by sweet 1

2007-10-23 04:53:54 · 12 answers · asked by neuroticgirl9 1

alot of people in my family have not lived long. theyve had strokes, and cancer. this means my life will probably be short too. i want to know from all of you, would you live your life differently, if you knew your life would be short. i think i would. and have had a different outlook on life.

2007-10-23 04:53:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous