Psychology - August 2007

hi,
im a female bus driver and l work on one bad route, i got threatened lastnight and also someone handed in a knife, which is all too common on this route, it can be very intimidating but you have to act like you dont give a shite and act tough, but l find this very hard, anyone any suggestions on how to let things just go over your head.

serious replies only please

2007-08-05 09:56:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

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why do you live in material possesions? why do you judge without being judged? why dont you judge yourself? why dont you think? why arnt you happy? why are you running? are you dissapointed? did i ruin you lie? you delusion? am i the enemy now? why am i the enemy? when your the one thats lying to yourself

2007-08-05 09:47:36 · 4 answers · asked by john constantine 2

imagine myself as someone else (ex. picturing myself as someone with different looks, clothes, etc., without actually changing my looks or clothes? I would like to actually feel like I'm the person I'm picturing myself as. I do not wish to change, but would just like to pretend effectively.

2007-08-05 09:00:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean I have no big part in this world. So if I was never born would it really make that big of a ripple in the world?

(This isn't a suicidal question. I do want to be alive)

2007-08-05 08:51:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy friend who moved to another state a year ago. We didn't know each other well but since then have kept in contact by chat..once a mth or so. Now I have to visit his city for work and he said he'd love to meet up. Problem is I'm now thinkning about him a lot..he wrote that he's going to fall in love with me & also said hurry up and come visit. Thing is I don't know him that well & I'm just worried as we don't chat very often. Now its a few wks since we've chatted..usually he contacts me. It's making me insecure & worried but I do know he's really busy now. Problem is, the last contact (by him) was six wks ago when he checked again when I was leaving! Then a week ago, I mailed him to tell him the date I'll be there and am waiting a reply. Why hasn't he got back to me? If he was interested wouldn't he be in contact more?

2007-08-05 08:42:41 · 10 answers · asked by sonia 1

This includes pack rats who can't throw away string etc.?

Is it just bad habits or is this a psychological condition? If it is psychological, can it be treated?

2007-08-05 08:40:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had this dream a month ago of my music teacher who I hate. He was stroking my hair. I hate my music teacher because hes a prat who slates everyone or makes obseen coments. I just hoped this dram would go away but it isn't. I keep having the same dram every so often. What is my subcontracts telling me.

2007-08-05 08:36:25 · 16 answers · asked by wee suzie 4

2007-08-05 08:27:21 · 8 answers · asked by Diesel Weasel 7

What does it mean?

2007-08-05 08:23:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Evolution and atheism have not hurt anyone. Can your religion make that claim?

2007-08-05 08:16:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going clubbing downtown (for a friend's birthday party). This is my first time to an actual club. I'm 19 by the way and it's legal where I'm from once you turn 19.
I have been to a restaurant-bar or lounge before but haven't stayed there for more than 10 minutes, after hours.
My parents disapprove with severity; they claim that drive by shootings happen and things get out of hand all the time in these kinds of places, and it's definitely no place for someone as young and inexperienced as me.
In the end; however, it is my decision. By the way, I do look very young; I got IDed multiple times at the lounge, and I wasn't even there for that long, but my friends didn't b/c I look young. Do you think this would make me vulnerable or an easy target for the wrong type of people?
Do you think it would be a bad idea to stay out late once and just have fun clubbing with my friends? I was planning on wearing a sexy dress but now I'm unsure. Should I? I won't drink. Thanks for your help

2007-08-05 08:06:57 · 10 answers · asked by Belle 3

when people ask me questions about how my ex is doing how do i respond in a positive manner. also why does my older sister constantly tell me how beautiful and wonderful his new child is. what is she trying to gain i feel that i really am on to a new life and do not want her negative energy, how do i tell her to clam up. in a positive way.

2007-08-05 07:55:29 · 8 answers · asked by elliepenelly 3

2007-08-05 07:24:38 · 20 answers · asked by Zefram 2

2007-08-05 07:13:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-05 07:12:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i talk to myself ALL the time and im stupidly strange when im on the comeputer i'll Find a song and go: Hmm thats pretty good dont you think so? its really wierd i was just wondering


why do poeple talk to themselves and what do you think of it?

2007-08-05 07:11:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've researched psychopathic & sociopathic personalities. I'm not trying to be rude by using the word psychopath, but trying to protect myself from further emotional/mental abuse. I can't find anything that deals with break-ups. Unfortunately he's as charming as manipulative. Any honest and true advice would be greatly appreciated. Suggestions welcomed.

2007-08-05 06:53:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you're dealing with the same problem. What do you think and why?

2007-08-05 06:37:01 · 3 answers · asked by __ 3

2007-08-05 06:36:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-05 06:11:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you enjoy walking a mile in his shoes for a day?

2007-08-05 06:10:03 · 10 answers · asked by topink 6

2007-08-05 05:52:27 · 4 answers · asked by head shot 2

2007-08-05 05:49:39 · 4 answers · asked by embroidery fan 7

I'm so attracted to this guy and he likes me too. Up until now we've been friends..we knew each other a little before he moved to another state. Since then have kept in contact by chat..once a mth or so. Now I have to visit his city for work and he'd love to meet up. Problem is I'm already so into him and can't stop obsessing. He wrote that he's going to fall in love with me. Also said hurry up and come visit. Thing is I don't know him that well..but I do know he's attracted to me & seems like a decent guy. I'm just worried as we don't chat very often. Now its a few wks since we've chatted..usually he contacts me. It's making me insecure & worried but I do know he's really busy now and the last contact (by him) he checked again when I was leaving! I recently mailed him to tell him the date I'll be there and am waiting a reply. That's more than a week ago. Why hasn't he got back to me?

2007-08-05 05:45:14 · 9 answers · asked by sonia 1

2007-08-05 05:17:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

thoughts ...

2007-08-05 05:13:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-05 04:52:17 · 10 answers · asked by Chris 3

If you want to know what a whimp is like, it is a person who leaves a hot negative message and is too scared to allow for a response. They rant and rave and even say all kinds of ungodly things because they know that no one can confront them. The truth is they can be reported if they go overboard.

Be a man! Be a woman! If you are bold enough to answer a question derogatorily then leave an email address to be confronted! Did your mother not teach you to stand up and fight? Did you not know if you dish it out, you better be prepared to take it. Don't be a whimp, go and add an email address.

2007-08-05 04:49:35 · 4 answers · asked by shawnLacey 4

2007-08-05 04:37:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

what buttons to press and they press them all. you feel people use key words and insinuate at you, just certain people though.
what is this? is it me being over sensitive? or is it them being nasty playing stupid mind games?

and if it is them, how can i deal with it when it happens?

in the past ive experienced this in super markets, people chatting near me, behind me, or in other checkouts.
by a gp/ doctor when theyve spoke to me...detecting an air of indirect condesention and patronism..
different people basically i feel using key words to upset or confuse me.
i never no how to deal with it without anger building up. and its like i become stunned into muteness.
im a 30 year old bpd sufferer whos endured a very traumatic life and abuse...i wait for therapy.
but as regards this problem, can somebody tell me how to deal with that?

2007-08-05 04:31:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous