I've researched psychopathic & sociopathic personalities. I'm not trying to be rude by using the word psychopath, but trying to protect myself from further emotional/mental abuse. I can't find anything that deals with break-ups. Unfortunately he's as charming as manipulative. Any honest and true advice would be greatly appreciated. Suggestions welcomed.
2007-08-05 06:53:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Was he clinicaly diagnosed as such? Are you exagerating please provide an example of his psycho behavior.
Surely he is hospitalized? You don't say how long you have been in a relationship with a man who could be your father.
If he is manipulative, you know it don't let him manipulate you, you don't wish to be with him, be honest, end it. There is no "nice way" to end a relationship. Its ugly, and it hurts, and it takes time to heal, people do go a little psycho when this is occuring are you sure he is not just feeling your distance and that you want to seperate and this scares him and makes him act oddly. Just a thought
2007-08-05 07:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved with people like that.
People always say women go after the wrong guy 100% of the time. How about getting to know the guy first then deciding to leave or stay with him. its simple socially to figure this out. Avoid manipulative guys. You don't deserve emotional/mental abuse either. Run away from him, don't ever see him again.
There are lots of other charming nice innocent guys out there. The shy ones are the best faithful ones. Don't go for cocky, arrogant men. Stubborn is good, controlling partially good. It's hard to find someone perfect but keep trying. Don't ever give up on love.
2007-08-05 06:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Beware of charm, catching someone in their lies, and manipulation/emotional abuse. A sociopath is a predator that will go after vulnerable people who have poor self esteem.
My exhusband WAS clinically diagnosed by the psychologist who did our divorce counseling. She advised me to get a restraining order, as he had tried to strangle me the night I kicked him out. Believe me, I was at the courthouse the very next day!
I never got a cent of child support, as he fled the country 4 months later. Just be glad you didn't have a child with the scumbag!
2007-08-05 10:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also have done research on psychopaths and just remember that only experts can say weather or not he's a psychopath. But if he is, just do it girl, because he is going to pull you into his hole he dug for you. I'm no expert, but I definately know that they are dangerous people to live with!
2007-08-05 07:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 01:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if you told him that you were thinking about getting a sex change? If that didn't work, you'd always have the option of crapping in your pants and faking a seizure.
2007-08-05 07:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by illustrat_ed_designs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd start with a restraining order see a good lawyer about this
2007-08-05 06:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by mason proffit 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honestly if he makes you feel that bad,leave him and RUN go to the cops and say he is emotionally abusing you! you shouldent have to go threugh that crap,noone should.
2007-08-05 06:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by Rosalie Cullen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restraining order and stop all contact.
have a friend stay with you if you think he's gonna stalk you.
2007-08-05 06:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
move, most are that bad that they will turn stalkerish, id move if i were you
2007-08-05 06:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by Vann 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋