A guy friend who moved to another state a year ago. We didn't know each other well but since then have kept in contact by chat..once a mth or so. Now I have to visit his city for work and he said he'd love to meet up. Problem is I'm now thinkning about him a lot..he wrote that he's going to fall in love with me & also said hurry up and come visit. Thing is I don't know him that well & I'm just worried as we don't chat very often. Now its a few wks since we've chatted..usually he contacts me. It's making me insecure & worried but I do know he's really busy now. Problem is, the last contact (by him) was six wks ago when he checked again when I was leaving! Then a week ago, I mailed him to tell him the date I'll be there and am waiting a reply. Why hasn't he got back to me? If he was interested wouldn't he be in contact more?
2007-08-05 08:42:41 · 10 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He is trying to scare you off so you will not bug him
2007-08-05 08:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say move on. He should have contacted you back by now. Why would he fall in love with you in another state and not the one you came from. Probably makes you sad but reality says he's starting a new life perhaps meeting all new people. Possibly not intentionally to hurt you, but - - - - happens.
2007-08-05 09:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by cureus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Contact him again,but,leave it at I'll be there on this date,let's get together for a burger or coffee. Maybe he's afraid that it'll move too quickly or didn't think you'd really come and is scared.
2007-08-05 09:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by Rhea B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might be busy, try not to invest to much emotion into this guy you hardly know. if you do come into contact with him think of it as a bonus not the reason for going.
2007-08-05 08:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by Recnamorcen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Send him another and ask if he recieved it. He may be busy. Just ask him traight out because us men do not take hints well. You both will be happier if you are straight forward.
2007-08-05 08:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on just how buys he is. Sometimes things at work are so hectic that everything else is forgotten for awhile.
2007-08-05 08:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
id just move on and start enjoying your own life forget about him he's not worth it...
2007-08-05 08:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by bubbles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't know what kind of guy he is but from what your saying reliability is not his strong point
2007-08-05 08:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-08-05 08:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by PinWheels 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE'S GAY
2007-08-05 08:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by ALAN J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋