I'm so attracted to this guy and he likes me too. Up until now we've been friends..we knew each other a little before he moved to another state. Since then have kept in contact by chat..once a mth or so. Now I have to visit his city for work and he'd love to meet up. Problem is I'm already so into him and can't stop obsessing. He wrote that he's going to fall in love with me. Also said hurry up and come visit. Thing is I don't know him that well..but I do know he's attracted to me & seems like a decent guy. I'm just worried as we don't chat very often. Now its a few wks since we've chatted..usually he contacts me. It's making me insecure & worried but I do know he's really busy now and the last contact (by him) he checked again when I was leaving! I recently mailed him to tell him the date I'll be there and am waiting a reply. That's more than a week ago. Why hasn't he got back to me?
2007-08-05 05:45:14 · 9 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He's married - move on.
2007-08-05 05:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Familiarity breeds contempt. This guy may be also pretending to be hard to get, since you are visiting his city. He could be dangerous for you, See everyone can be decent, but sex is very attractive thing for the first time it is new, and it has nothing to do with decency or not, it's a desire, a lust. You have to see your prioritities too. Do not jump in the dark. Be sane, wait, and let your relationship blossom away from his home. Meet him in crowded places for the time being.
2007-08-05 13:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by chandrasanyal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no wonder he hasn't got back to you who would want someone obsessing over them like that you don't really know each other with the sound of it so put it down to experience and move on
2007-08-06 01:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by wifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he doesn't like you as much as you think, or he's found someone else, or he really is as busy as he says. I would not make a single solitary move toward this guy. If he wants to see you, he's gonna have to show it.
2007-08-05 12:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's fairly obvious, for whatever reason that he doesn't wish to meet up with you.
Time to move on - "plenty of fish in the sea"
2007-08-05 12:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by Stuart A B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he doesn't want anything to do with a "woman" who is acting like a schoolgirl with a crush.
Bloody grow up and get a life.
2007-08-05 12:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was a sex chat I am afraid! move on, because if he wanted you that badly, he would of been there already!
2007-08-05 12:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by Niall S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely married, or as good as. The bounder :-)
2007-08-05 13:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by bletherskyte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE HE'S MENTALLY ILL
2007-08-09 06:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋