Psychology - March 2007

I'm studying drug & alcohol counselling & i'm struggling a little. Theraputic alliance is the relationship thats built up with your client, counsellor has empathy & congruence which enables an honest relationship with client.

2007-03-20 23:50:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-03-20 23:49:21 · 23 answers · asked by OGnoD 1

my last poem was about dread etc and some have asked if i had 1 about love, well i think this is the nearest i have, excuse the spelling and the lenght etc, as with the other poem please tell me how it makes you feel and constructive comments
thanx for your time.

The Visit

I knock on the wood anticipation wells inside
You open the door amazement I try to hide
Your beauty and smile caress my being
I blink my eyes, hardly believing what I am seeing

You stand there an apologise about the mess
I wonder why? for I care not less
You stand to one side and invite me in
I caring not about the untidiness within

I walk to the sofa, toys dotted around the floor
Again you apologise about not doing this chore
I must clean up you say in a sweet voice
My heart beats fast and melts it has no choice

My coat I remove and watch you dash around
Picking the toys of the sofa with a clutter of sound
You say I cannot believe this room is this way again
All these toys will one day surely drive me insane

I smile again for I do not care, and at u I look
Picking up as I sit down a children’s book
You want a drink you ask as you pick up a train
I smile and say please trying to hide loves pain

Just sit down I say for I do not care if it’s tidy or not
As for the drink I don’t mind if it be chilled or hot
All I want is to sit and talk to you upon this seat
I look at your toes and comment on your tiny feet

You took them under you with style and grace
Trying to hide that sheepish smile on your face
I know this night will be filled with laughter
An evening to remember for long days after

The evening is at an end and my heart does dip
Not wanting to finishing a drink, so slowly I do sip
This night has been one of a few
And every night I stop myself saying I love you

But I know that to you im just a friend
And that I must accept until life’s end
I hold you and say goodnight my sweet
Till the next time our paths do meet

With that, I smile and from your door walk away
Not wanting to inform you of the words I want to say
Another few weeks and this time will repeat again
These mad few happy hours that will keep me so sane

2007-03-20 23:48:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met him, and he sat next to me in the bus, and we spoke all the way to the university. We were in class, and he decided to sit next to me, I am guessing it could also be cause he has a laptop too and needed the same power, or maybe not...
well after that - he and a few friends - went in the car home, and I spent 1hr with him - and him friend just chattin afterwards...
We went for coffee - and that took 2 hrs, he sat next to me, he even took a few snaps with me, and later on, said he was tired cause no sleep so put him pillow against my leg and was just lyin down... he could have just been tired....

then, cause i had my car... i went and dropped them home

well - what's your view??
am i just imagining that he may or may not like me? is it just a friend kind of thing.... ????
hello - whats goin on??

2007-03-20 23:44:46 · 12 answers · asked by Franky 1

I have ups and downs where I can forgive my family and accept that they are people who need to be loved too and then I get all angry all over again. I want to be able to permanently forgive these jerks. No need to tell you what they did. people do all kinds of bad stuff to their youngest siblings/daughters. Hwo do I stay in peace

2007-03-20 23:44:38 · 12 answers · asked by happycat 1

Or is it a blessing? Weigh up the thoughts of sorrow and happiness, and what are you left with? Sometimes thoughts are torturous..sometimes they are wonderful

2007-03-20 23:40:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-20 23:33:50 · 7 answers · asked by KrishanRam(Jitendra k) 3

2007-03-20 23:29:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-20 23:21:43 · 14 answers · asked by Kantibhai P 1

Watch a person a European or American being interviewed say on TV and you will observe that he will repeatedly keep on using the words "YOU KNOW" several times coupled with the replies.This is quite a common occurence any reason for the use of those words which is not relevant to the questions asked.

2007-03-20 22:55:47 · 14 answers · asked by colin 2

2007-03-20 22:52:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a person becomes concious of being under hypnosious , are they still under the power of being hypnotized eventhough they may have conciousness of it?

2007-03-20 22:43:26 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-03-20 22:40:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to become a psychologsist but my father wants me to be a doctor.my bro's a doc and he s not happy wit.and i am really into psychology.how do i tell my father tat?help...

2007-03-20 22:20:59 · 9 answers · asked by ka2 3

Have you set yourself any important tasks or goals that you are determined to complete before you pop your clogs? What are the 3 top tasks or most important?

2007-03-20 22:10:49 · 10 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5

It's called Slip Out The Back by Fort Minor.I didn't really understand the song but I liked the beat and everything and only understood bits and fragments of the song, not the whole thing. I was wondering if anyone could clarify it for me. Here are the Lyrics:
You know me, I used to get caught up in everyday life
Tried to make it through my day so I could sleep at night
Tried to figure out my way through the maze
Of rights and wrongs, but like you used to say
Nothing feels like it's really worth it
Forget perfect, I'm trying not to be worthless
Since I last saw you I been looking for a purpose
Well I met this kid who thought like I did
He had a weird way of looking at it
This is what he said

Slip out the back before they know you were there
And at the worst you'll see nobody cares
Cos you don't wanna be around when it all goes down
Even heroes know when to be scared
Slip out the back before they know you were there
And at the worst you'll see nobody cares
Cos you don't wanna be around when it all goes down
Even heroes know when to be scared

I don't remember where I met him or remember his name
But he walked funny like he was just too big for his frame
Just over five foot but he weighed a buck fifty
And what he said just seemed so right it stuck with me
Listen its like poker you can play your best
But you got to know when to fold your cards and take a rest
And know when to hold your cards and hold your breath
And hope that nobody else is stacking the deck because
I don't need to tell you that life isn't fair, it doesn't care
It arbitrarily cuts off your air, and like you I want someone to say its OKAY
But in the truest parts of our hearts everybody's afraid
But just underappreciated and overwhelmed
Fighting so hard to hide our fear that were scaring ourselves
You understand when I'm saying that you always did
But its different in the words of a cowardly kid

Slip out the back before they know you were there
And at the worst you'll see nobody cares
Cos you don't wanna be around when it all goes down
Even heroes know when to be scared
Slip out the back before they know you were there
And at the worst you'll see nobody cares
Cos you don't wanna be around when it all goes down
Even heroes know when to be scared

I'm no hero, you remember how I was, you know
All I ever did was worry, feeling out of control
To the point where everything was going end over end
I'm spinning around in circles again
This is where you come in
All of this to explain to you why
I had to separate myself away from yesterday's life
Please remember this isn't how I hoped it would be
But I had to protect you from me
Thats why I slipped out the back before you knew I was there
I know you felt unprepared
But every single time I was around I just bring you down
And I could tell that it was time to be scared
Thats why I slipped out the back before you knew I was there
And I know the way I left wasn't fair
I didn't want to be around just to bring you down
I'm not a hero but don't think I didn't care

2007-03-20 21:58:59 · 3 answers · asked by nikki 1

Hi there all , please can you tell me what you think to my recent poem, please give constructive comments please, tell me how it makes u feel for i try and write about things that spark emotion, if it doesnt do anything for you please tell me why?, may thanx for your time.

Cold heart

The simple fact you’re here no more
A simple act my heart you tore
The pain caused will never relieve
For your love I will never receive
Alone in gloom I will sit
In this depression till heart is fit
I fear to try, scared to the core
Towards me love has closed its door
Now I understand love and its lines
The delicate structure and how it entwines
A flip of a coin what will it be
Love or hate directed towards me
My heart has grown cold and without care
No longer do I wish my life to share

2007-03-20 21:56:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

under the condition that you had to leave your country of origin and that you could never set foot there again, would you do it?

2007-03-20 21:51:58 · 19 answers · asked by Lefty 7

I am trying to convince my readers that gossip is evil and
stupid information, especially when about the so called celebrities- mainly very low quality humans.

2007-03-20 21:44:56 · 5 answers · asked by peter193710 1

Im a 17 yr old student and am a confident person ,trust me, but usually when someone targets me i quickly become offended and lose my stable condition is this cause im sensitive or wat?
how am to keep confident cause i cant.

2007-03-20 21:43:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am making a life changing decision to walk away from my highly regarded engineering college and pursue something I have true desire to do at a community college then transfer to another one. Some people are telling me I am weak and a quitter and to just "stick with it" even though I can't stand engineering anymore. Is walking away a sign of weakness or strength??

2007-03-20 21:42:36 · 15 answers · asked by sausofornia 2

your own children someday? Is it more likely you will be a sexual abuser yourself to your own kids?

2007-03-20 21:36:05 · 4 answers · asked by coolred38 5

2007-03-20 21:33:09 · 6 answers · asked by september 2

2007-03-20 21:30:38 · 12 answers · asked by september 2

2007-03-20 21:28:47 · 13 answers · asked by september 2

I was just thinking about a time at my cousin's house. He lives just outside a midsized town in Illinois. I was on the back porch, it was sunset, it was so calm out I could hear the TV in the living room thru the open back door, their kids were running around in the yard, and suddenly all this weight just sheared off, all my garbage mechanisms for dealing with the world shut down, and there it was. For a little while.

2007-03-20 21:28:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-20 21:26:57 · 12 answers · asked by september 2

2007-03-20 21:21:42 · 8 answers · asked by SD 1

You knew for certain what was going to happen to you when you die....would it change your way of thinking, would it make you a better person?

2007-03-20 21:21:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

A father is driving his son to the school; on their way they meet with a bad accident.
The father dies on the spot; while the kid is rushed to the hospital. The attending doctor, upon watching the kid, gasps, "This is my son!!!".....
Who is the doctor???

2007-03-20 21:10:51 · 7 answers · asked by -ve Space 2