2007-03-20 21:28:47 · 13 answers · asked by september 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I am against it for several reasons. 1) I am a Christian and the Bible (God's Word) says that God HATES divorce. Why? Because when 2 people marry, they bond together as one and they make a vow or a promise "til death"....Now, God also says that sexual immorality is one reason that divorce may occur. (Someone breaking the marriage bond.) It does not mean it has to, though. I also believe that if someone is in an abusive marriage, they should seek help and God's will for them. If they are not a believer, then I guess anything may go...but consider my second reason....2) it hurts people and destoys society. What I mean is, I was a child of divorce. My parents divorced when I was 9. It wrecked me for the rest of my childhood. It made a bigger mess than we had before. I found my parents to be selfish in their decision. When there are children involved, especially....it is hazardous. Step-parents come into it usually and there is not a bond with them like there is with original parents, so the incidence of abuse increases. Children don't respect the step-parents as much usually, and rebel more. It sets them up for failure. It is possible for parents to make divorce as "easy" as possible for the kids, but it rarely happens. I have so many more reasons but I will stop there. Divorce is usually such an ugly thing. I say, if you're not in it for life with that person, don't marry. (I've been married 14 years now.)
2007-03-20 21:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by gracefully_saved 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a strange question its not a topic witch is cause of happy or bad it just a thought provoking thing
some time its favor in the circumstances of critical and there is no solution expect divorce but its the last stage of dicision
and some time its not favor like some one divorce the other without the geniune reason and just for materilism or to defame the othe in that case its not favor able
in Islamic religion although divorce is Halal but it consider the bad act
so one should marry with fully attantion and if there is some misunderstanding or the last stage by luck then this the solution
2007-03-20 21:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by chamaktaysitary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change. There is no point in living with someone who is abusive or makes you totally unhappy.
On the other hand, I don't think running to the divorce court at the first sign of trouble is the answer either.
When you have tried to work it out, and it just won't work, or you are so very unhappy, yes, it is time for a divorce.
2007-03-21 02:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by KnowItAll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some people have valid reasons for divorce such as infidelity or abuse, however, I think people are too quick to get divorced these days instead of trying to work through their troubles. It seems that people are quick to say the vows and get married, but they don't really understand what commitment really means. If more people would take their vows seriously, there wouldn't be such a high divorce rate. I just wish people would try harder to make their marriages work.
2007-03-21 01:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think divorce is unfortunate, but necessary on occasion. I don't see any reason for two people who aren't getting along well to stay together, especially after they've tried things like counseling. Sometimes people make mistakes; there's no reason they should pay for those mistakes for the rest of their lives. I don't think children of any age should be a consideration; there is no question in my mind that ANY child is going to do better in a calm, one-parent household than in a two-parent household that is in constant turmoil.
2007-03-20 21:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need better or grammar or something. But yeah, divorce favors that women. That's why I'll only marry the women I'm sure it will work with! But I know I'll **** that up big time.
2016-03-16 23:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! certainly not.... relationship is a bond between two people..not just marriage..but any relationship for that matter is to have yoUrself feel happy that u have some one with u..to share Ur happiness,Ur sorrow,Ur likes,ur dislikes,advice u,support u,appreciate u,criticize u, teach u,help u,ND bla bla bla... this all means a lot in life... every person u encounter in Ur life ..doesn't come just like that...he has a special moment in Ur precious life...DIVORCE is an end to the most beautiful relationship of Ur life... u cant appreciate this thought! but yes if Ur personal life is SO trouble some ..u can definitely go ahead.. i prefer u give a second thought!
I am just a student..not stepped into this kinda life yet... and if u feel an experienced person will guide u better in this aspects..then please go ahead..listen to Ur miND and heart nd proceed accordingly..as they are the most essential part of Ur body..ND they'll never guide u the wrong way..close Ur eyes ND think ... obey Ur conscience.
2007-03-20 21:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by snazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In favor of.
People shouldn't be punished for having a bad marrage by being forced by the state to remain married.
2007-03-20 21:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. We are human beings, and we do make mistakes. We have to have a way to fix that. I have a firm belief that we are each given a set amount of time to live our lives, and that the entire goal is to find happiness. If we aren't happy in our marriage, we need to either find a way to change that, or get out. I do believe in trying counseling first, especially if there are kids involved.
2007-03-20 21:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why live with somebody you don't get along with? Yes to divorce!
2007-03-20 21:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by lanisoderberg69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋