Psychology - March 2007

and feel sorry for you?
when its not wanted.
im proud and i dont like people to know im hurting or going through hell or facing alot of adversity.
and it seems that its inevitable that people will treat you like a charity case, because of what youve been through, like your tainted in everyones eyes.
im 29 and since 15 have suffered with borderliner personality disorder. it seriously for me has been 1 long dark tunnel, its been very tough, and im not out of that dark lonely tunnel yet.
im waitin for therapy, which i know will be long term.
i feel very bitter and angry at the way my lifes gone so far.
the way my lifes not the way i want it.
i find it difficult to form relashionships, and dont have any friends. so i live a lonely existance and struggle on alone.
but ill be damned if im gonna have people feel sorry for me
and treat me like a charity case
id rather eat my own vomit for eternity

2007-03-28 05:55:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

People ask questions because they want an answer to help them. So, why do some answer with insults instead? To me it seems as if those who do this either have a problem themselves or just want the 2 points for answering the question. All the points do for you is bring you to the next level so Why bother answering if all you can do is insult others?

2007-03-28 05:21:49 · 10 answers · asked by no.#1 Mom 4

I have social anxiety and obessesion problems.

My psychiatrist saids that just like someone with diabetes needs insulin I need prozac.

Does this mean that prozac (like insulin for diabetes) is all I need and that other forms of therapy are unnecessary?

2007-03-28 05:20:19 · 8 answers · asked by Appel 2

I work 2 weeks days 2 weeks nights.when i do nights i sleep o.k but my moods change.Everything makes me mad and angry.I shout at the kids and argue with the missus.apart from stopping nights any idaes how to cope better???

2007-03-28 05:13:44 · 4 answers · asked by adrian b 1

Can memories that were at one stage completely unreachable ever be retrieved again?
Also, I've heard of the terms "Memory loss'' and ''memory lack'', and how the two are different. What do the two terms mean, and how do they differ?

Please do not reply unless you work in the field/s of Psychology, Psychiatry or Neurology, or is undertaking tertiary study in one of the subjects.

2007-03-28 05:09:44 · 3 answers · asked by [operatic stock character] 4

I remember a boy at the primary school I went to who hated adults so strongly that it scared me. I never dared to ask why. He always kept on rambling on about how much he hated adults and insisted that they didn't deserve to live.
What could possibly make a child hate adults so much?

2007-03-28 05:06:34 · 21 answers · asked by Jadey 2

i wrote a chart before i reincarnate that i will not see my brother
now that i recently found out that i have a brother but he is three
thousand miles away and i have know idea where he is, I want
to find him but what i wrote in my chart that we will never meet.
my question is, is it possible for me to find and see him even
if i didn't write in my chart.

2007-03-28 05:06:00 · 3 answers · asked by Dalena 2

I shout on my elders and youngers and being irritated on every moment, i irrtate others too. Plz tell me what to do

2007-03-28 05:02:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've noticed loads of times that when i hear or think of something inspirational , i get the chills
the hair on my head seems to blow up and i get a really happy feeling.
could someone tell me about this please?

2007-03-28 05:01:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

people think I am outgoing person, but inside there is some-one very afraid, and very sad, I keep to myself alot of times. Am I the only one like that.

2007-03-28 04:52:54 · 10 answers · asked by chacha 1

Met a guy and had an instant extreme dislike.
Everything about him just annoyed the *&)*) out of me -- think about an underskin itch that can't be scratch or won't go away.
I also went out of my way to let him know that I despised him with passion. -- I couldn't help it because I always felt an intense anger around him.

But then our eyes met for the first time....lo and behold...I felt like I was finally at home ...so safe and secured, and had a feeling of a lock and a key (strange I know)...


The thing is I don't know this guy -- he's just some stranger who turned my life upside down.

And NO...we're not dating, but I noticed that he noticed me too considering I was very rude to him.


Can you explain why I felt an instant anger/dislike before the eye contact accident?

2007-03-28 04:52:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why, when we know that person isn't right for us, or that they would never feel anything more than a friendship for us, do we still think "maybe s'he really does like me" or "perhaps in time when the situation is just so, we can be together..."?

2007-03-28 04:50:50 · 14 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7

Depression after break up.

Yes, I am excercising and trying to occupy myself with work but I can't.

I am unable to concenrate on work or any activity I used to enjoy.

The obsessive thoughts are coming again & again, and I feel total helpless. I don't want her but I want my peace of mind back so that I can concentrate on my work.

2007-03-28 04:46:17 · 9 answers · asked by abraham366 2

Why is it that when i dream and i get hurt in my dream it feels so real. I actually feel pain.

2007-03-28 04:44:58 · 2 answers · asked by chedderapples 4

i just go red all the time when theres no need to, i don't know why i do.

2007-03-28 04:38:33 · 9 answers · asked by Bruza 17/uk 3

I had a dream last night that I was at some type of outdoor picnic. I was there, and I had 2 kids (i am 22m, single, no kids). They were between the ages of 1 and 4 and they were ugly. why would i dream about having ugly kids?

2007-03-28 04:31:11 · 7 answers · asked by Ronnie Gardocki 4

For many years I have had this recurring dream about 4 times a year. I dream that I am notified by my high school that they made a mistake and I never graduated because I failed gym. I can't figure this out, as I was fairly athletic and graduated from school with honors. Any sugggestions?

2007-03-28 04:30:31 · 8 answers · asked by vivib 6

please write in details, what can't u forgive even a close friend or the MEMBER of your family? and also if u can answer: Is there anything that is not faithful to forgive...prove your opinion,please.thx a lot...waiting for u all....

2007-03-28 04:26:53 · 15 answers · asked by sophiecelo 1

What are the steps to accepting yourself - the flaws, the good things, the things that society doesn't accept?
I need this for a workshop, so links & refrences & videos would be excellent.

Quotes as well!

2007-03-28 04:24:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm claustrophobic so mine is not being able to breathe or suffocating.

2007-03-28 04:24:31 · 13 answers · asked by curious 4

I'm claustrophobic so mine is not being able to breath or suffocating.

2007-03-28 04:23:54 · 6 answers · asked by curious 4

I know that deep down I should not do this but I can't stop. I've had all the pep talks, but it just seem as if it's impossible for me to be happy with myself. I'm not suicidal, but I'm 21 and I have never been truly happy in my own skin. I obviously need help.

2007-03-28 04:18:20 · 4 answers · asked by tenesha g 1

my grandmother has a disability and one of my cousins is somewhat mentally impaired. both of them need assistance to do everyday things like showering and just keeping up their appearances. They arent in wheelchairs or anything, their just really slow and cant take care of themselves. But the reason I'm asking is bc another one of my cousins feels like the reason she's having trouble in school sometimes is bc she thinks something might be wrong with her too. I have the same problem. Sometimes, I feel really slow mentally and that I could be doing better. So, is might I have gotten a little something from my family members?

2007-03-28 04:13:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

sometimes i have a dream that somebody that i love is dying. why is that? and sometimes my favourite things is taken away or broken. can somebody explains what does it means when it comes to dreams like that?

2007-03-28 04:10:37 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6

I would for my Kids

2007-03-28 04:10:13 · 24 answers · asked by sylvie c 4

I keep having this dream that my teeth are falling out. Does anyone know what that means. I have a dream book but it doesnt have that one in there.

2007-03-28 04:01:29 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica C 1

we all have the mental capabilities within our brain that allows us to overcome any obstacle that our human bodies may experience, either physical or mental? And that all it takes is something to trigger those mechanisms, such as a realization, or a strong willpower, or simply someone's constant encouragement, to switch it on? Do you beleive that anything is possible with the power of our minds, and our true human capabilities, when you stop letting outside influences affect your beleif in yourself?

2007-03-28 03:59:57 · 11 answers · asked by Lindsey H 5

It seems to me that women are competative, and men are just more supportive and easy-going?

2007-03-28 03:50:11 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2

I often dream I have to catch baby copperheads, which are very poisiniois because they don't know how to moderate their venom. Different people in my dreams tell me I have to do this. The snakes may be in the house or in a cave or in the grass etc. but are some type of threat. I usually catch them and try to hold their heads back so they can't bite my wrist, but when I grab the second one the first one will bite me. They don't break the skin but I get mad anyway. I usually stick them in a jar but can never find a lid so I have to use a stuff toy and stuff it in. I don't kill them even though I have a desire to, because I have a feeling I am not suppose to. If I caught a copperhead for real the first thing I would do is kill it and not even try to pick it up. Any translations.

2007-03-28 03:50:00 · 7 answers · asked by teana 2

i coudnt find a better word (than rub) for that action, but u know what im talking about right ? Typically when children cry, they use their hands to kinda rub/squeeze their eyes....

WHY DO THEY DO THIS ?

Any psychological root-cause for this...? or is it a purely physical reason ... (to like, maybe get rid of the tears that accumulate in their eyes?)

2007-03-28 03:46:38 · 7 answers · asked by rEdshiFt 2