Gender Studies - March 2007

2007-03-15 01:25:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf once told me that I’m hot and cool in the same time…. Personally I’ll take that as compliment, but actually I don’t understand what he said. Aren’t both just the same? Anyway, what did it mean then? That you’re so cool and also so hot as a young woman…?

2007-03-14 22:54:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-14 22:42:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a girl at a friends wedding about a month ago - she seemed really positive and fun and we talked a bit (mostly about her) and i notice she kept sitting next to me, coming outside when I was..etc

she crossed my mind a few times since then so I got her number from my friends new wife, and gave her a call. She was driving at the time so I told her I'd call her back in 15 but she didn't answer. i text her to say i don't understand what i said in the matter of minutes to make her ignore me and that i would take it as if she is having a bad day... she text me back to let me know she was having a bad day and that she would be free the next day should i wish to call. i called 5 days later at end of the week but no answer. she text me a few days later apologising, & she was having it hard and busy with work, but saying i should call her sometime during the day. considering the trends so far i am no fool - she will not answer.

2007-03-14 21:11:25 · 9 answers · asked by tripppah 3

this is just a generalization. it varies in extremes from person to person.

men tend to be:

more likely to lose temper , egomaniacle, to prideful, more hardheaded, more stubborn, and more driven by instinct than rational thought, false sense of superiority.

women tend to be:

driven by emotions and let there emotions get the better of them, moody, hold double standards that benefit them, hold grudges, more passive agressive, and try to hard to prove themselves. more cruel when it comes to comparing there pain to a mans.

when you realy think about it we are both idiotic in alot of ways. but with these faults also comes strengths in which one is naturaly better at that the other. neither is superior, just different. do you agree??

2007-03-14 20:37:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think men are. because you never see women talk or ask for sex like a man does. we men are kind of pigs when it comes to that.

i think its due to instinct. if you see animals the males job is to spread there seed as much as possible to whoever to keep there legacy going. but the females end up choosing which male is worthy and strong enough to produce a succesful and strong offspring.

2007-03-14 20:35:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think its dumb for a woman to dress this way and be expected to receive respect and and dignity both outside of the work force and inside. if you dress like an object you will end up being treated like one. it doesnt mean you are liberated it mean you are trashy. also it rediculous how women get mad at men for staring when it shows so much of there body. women respond by saying "we women are sexual now days and we should be able to dress the way we want and still receive respect and be treated like a person" but obviousely thats not gonna happen. its cheap. just
Like I don’t treat men with respect when they think its cool to show there body off in the workplace

dont get me wrong, i beleive that if a woman wants to dress this way then she should have the freedom to do it. i may not agree with it but people deserve freedom. and i of course find this way of dress sexy as i am a man, but i never take these individuals seriously. its hard to see there intelligence when something elseIs showing. Its very unprofessional and very distracting.

2007-03-14 20:16:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

before you answer you have to drop any preconceived notions for or against feminism. i agree with a lot of it. i also think that women deserve equal pay and are equal in every way to men.

This will go against almost all you have been taught to believe about men and women for the past pathetic 60 years. But, having lived through this, I see just how true it is and how it was done

Feminism is a grotesque fraud perpetrated on society by the governing elite. It is designed to weaken the American social and cultural fabric in order to introduce a "friendly" fascist New World Order. Its advocates are sanctimonious charlatans who have grown rich and powerful from it. They include a whole class of liars and moral cripples who work for the elite in various capacities: government, education and the media. These imposters ought to be exposed and ridiculed. Betty Friedan and Gloria Steinem were NOT what they were presented to be.

We were taught to abandon our femininity and challenge men for the masculine role. Wewere told heterosexuality and family by nature is oppressive to women. Domestic violence was publicized to trample woman's tender tendrils of trust. As a result, the divorce rate doubled and the birth rate was cut in half. One third of all births are now out-of-wedlock. The ability to commit to a relationship is almost unheard of among the young. Today they “hook up” and move on. Men are reduced to no more than dogs urinating on women as if they were hydrants. How often have I heard a single mother refer to her ex as a "sperm donor"? But no one is at fault here, we are ALL VICTIMS. Men, women, children all.

Not all women need to marry and have children but the vast majority do. We are a bonding species. Children represent our organic growth. As recently as fifty years ago, the role of wife and mother was honored. After 1960, society was subjected to the vicious campaign of social engineering designed to disparage these roles and make women seek fulfillment in career instead. We got caught up in the fun of burning our bras and being led by the evil ones.

Led by the Rockefeller Foundation, this media campaign was made to look spontaneous and "modern." In fact, the goal was to decrease the birth rate and destabilize society by pitting men against women. Divide and conquer. The other reason for the feminist action was so that the bankers could CHARGE DOUBLE THE INCOME TAX on a family. With two working members there was more to steal by their dishonest tax laws. (These people, NOT our governments, own the Federal Reserve). Aaron Russo discusses this in this short flick:

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=...

Feminism has done untold damage to civilization. There is no more fundamental yet delicate relationship in society than male and female. On it depends the family, the red blood cell of society. Nobody with the interests of society at heart would try to divide men and women. Yet the lie that men have exploited women has become the official orthodoxy. The lie that they cheat is part of the propaganda machine. Man loves woman. His first instinct is to nurture ("husband") and see her thrive. When a woman is happy, she is beautiful. Sure, some men are abusive, but the vast majority are good decent men who have supported and guided their families for millennium. This is why men were so much stronger in character in days gone by. Feminism has robbed them of their rightful position in society. They are not given many opportunities to develop these traits. Abuse is up because these men are frustrated by the termination of their natural tendencies to nurture. No excuses but this is a contributing factor.

The Rockefeller's cruel regime has tricked women into forgetting that they are part of a natural cycle, and the ages of 18-25 are critical to starting a family. In the same way as the apple tree blossoms in the spring, young women need to marry and have children when nature intended. The Rockefellers want women and men to miss the opportunity to start strong families that will protect them from enslavement by the state.

All of this is calculated to create personal confusion and sow chaos among heterosexuals. As a result, millions of American males are emasculated and divorced from their relationship to family (the world and the future.) The American woman has been hoodwinked into investing herself in a meaningless mundane career instead of the timeless love of her husband and children. Many women have become temperamentally unfit to be wives and mothers.

People who are isolated and alone, stunted and love-starved, are easy to fool and manipulate. Without the healthy influence of two loving parents, so are their children. When both parents work, the children are exposed to government propaganda and manipulation from even younger ages.

Women's oppression is a lie. Sex roles were never as rigid as feminists would have us believe. My mother had a successful business in the 1940’s as a private nurse. When my father's income increased, she was content to quit and concentrate on the children. Women were free to pursue careers if they wanted to. The difference was that their role as wife and mother was understood, and socially validated, as it should be. Yet Stay at home mothers, both Christian and Muslim, are jeered and considered patsies by their more militant sisters.

Sex is an act of possession. You cannot be possessed by many men and ever belong to one. The ability to love/trust dies. The sex act is sacred. It is the ritual enactment of the Act of Creation. The man selects and prepares the special ground and plants his seed. The woman receives and nurtures it. Ultimately, a child is the fruit of love. Sex is an uplifting experience in this loving context. Today women and men settle for so much less. Careless sharing of our flesh has almost killed this concept today. Our children and grandchildren suffer.

We were told to be "smarter, better, faster" than the men we met. This is now echoed in “girl power” as boys are being marginalized in society. No longer does a woman seek a man she can naturally look up to, respect and trust. They waste time on the emotionally immature boys that men have been molded into. Men want power; women want love. Heterosexual union involves the exchange of the two: female power (in the worldly sense) for male love (his power expressed as love.)Two people don't become one by fighting over the same territory.

It is almost impossible to find a man with a powerful positive vision of life with a central place for a wife in these days. Homosexuality has seriously affected the balance between men in women in numbers. Men have to know what they want, provide leadership and earn trust. The man "makes the house, the woman makes the home. This complementary division of labor is natural. Women need to remember how to be a homemaker and mother. Why do you think fast foods and easy bake junk was promoted until most women have forgotten the basics?

Once the power-for-love arrangement is established, sex roles don't have to be rigid. The key is that a wife is willing to be First Mate to her Captain because he loves her, looks after her interests and is totally loyal. After that, who does what can be dictated by respective preferences, abilities and practical considerations.

While this was done to women, men were dumbed down and taught rebellion was coooool More separation from healthy mainstream attitudes. They were drugged and mind altered through the hippy days. They were taught a man has no responsibility to a woman because she is willing to give it away. "Free love" was NOT free. And so here we are.

Personally I feel RIPPED OFF. I believed this crap that was fed to us so insidiously. In doing so I lived a life I would not have chosen had I known better!

I hope I have expressed myself well. Feminism brought a few positive changes. But when you weight the good against the bad you will find, it was all a big sham created by the CIA, the Rockefellers and the Communist women who led us straight to hell.

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http://www.rense.com/general74/fem.htm.....
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This is a wonderful site

2007-03-14 20:05:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

opening doors,stepping away from a crwoded area,watching your language in front of them,etc......

2007-03-14 18:13:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you look at fairy tales, it seems as though Prince Charming was marrying whoever the female was in the story, and they all ended the same way?? How could this be with marriage laws??

2007-03-14 16:28:44 · 6 answers · asked by Master Ang Gi Guong 6

Why have feminist such a distorted sense of equality ?
A woman has the same chances a man has thesedays, yet feminists have a funny idea for equality, they go like, there are not enough female firefighers, Waaaaahhh !!! And its nobodies fault, if there are only 2% female firefighters it is eithier because not enough applied or a lot of women did not pass the goddamn test which exists for a reason and instead of progressing to an alternative job better suited for them some women go suing for lower standard. Its true for a lot of other fields.
So when exactly became equality about equal outcome and not equal opportunity the way it should be in a world of free enterprise.

2007-03-14 16:24:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ask b/c my fiance read a post on here by some girl who thought men look like less hairy versions of gorillas and if really offended him. I was wondering if anyone else feels this way?

2007-03-14 16:23:26 · 19 answers · asked by cotton~candy 4

2007-03-14 15:50:55 · 20 answers · asked by barnowl 4

I find feminism an interesting topic but I don't understand much about it, so I would like to know more about it, but I want to know if it bothers women when men ask or answer questions on here? And I mean decent questions/answers, not like the ridiculous ones from people with no life.

2007-03-14 15:48:00 · 18 answers · asked by Patrick 1

I find that straight women put too much emphasis on sex, and are more "reserved" when it comes to sex. I find that Bisexual and Lesbian women are more free and knowledgeable when it comes to having sex.

If the man wants to have some fun, and the woman (bisexual and sometimes lesbian) likes him, she wouldn't mind having sex/fun (as long as it is proper protected sex). If this woman was straight, she will tend to think too much like "oh! is he a good person? will he make a good boyfriend? what will my friends think if I get it on with him?" etc.

What do you think?

2007-03-14 15:06:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a research paper to write and I thought that this would be an interesting topic to investigate.

2007-03-14 15:03:57 · 2 answers · asked by Xavi 1

I have a research paper to do and I thought that this would be an interesting topic to investigate.

2007-03-14 15:03:06 · 5 answers · asked by Xavi 1

2007-03-14 13:40:03 · 4 answers · asked by smially 3

2007-03-14 13:38:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-14 13:25:56 · 15 answers · asked by vane03216 1

just wondering.... what is your opinion?

2007-03-14 13:23:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

why?

2007-03-14 13:13:29 · 17 answers · asked by ecogeek4ever 6

Every man and woman (that isn't in denial) has seen it -- women always saying "yeah but we have the power to create life" -- be it on Yahoo Answers, on talk shows, at feminist rallies, or on the street or anywhere.

Are women not aware that men are 50% of the reason why all human life exists? Women carry the baby in their stomach for 9 months, but men are equally responsible for creating that child.

Why do women always downplay a man's role in creating life? You can't argue with genetics. Why do some women claim men "envy" women's ability to give birth? And more ignorantly, their ability to "give life?" Do they not realize that men are relieved that they don't have to go through childbirth, and deal with the pain, the eating habits, the post-partum depression, the mood swings, the gaseous farts and bowel movements, the defecating on the operating table, the post-partum depression and weight-gain that follows, and various other biological hardships?

2007-03-14 12:50:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like Baba Yaga would say: GIME EMPIRICAL EVIDENCE FEMINISTS!!!

2007-03-14 12:37:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-14 12:12:27 · 19 answers · asked by jaded 2

Isnt it sexist?

2007-03-14 11:50:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-14 11:48:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-14 11:40:32 · 12 answers · asked by jaded 2

I love being natural and letting them hang freely. What do you think?

2007-03-14 10:50:13 · 18 answers · asked by MaryCheneysAccessory 6

who do u believe have affected young girls from early 1900's - now? and how?

2007-03-14 10:39:36 · 11 answers · asked by Lindsay xo0x 1