My 88 year Nan had a stroke 6 months ago, and has just been moved to a rest home from hospital. My Grandad died in October of this year, but she doesn't really understand, as she's also developed dementia.
She has lost a TON of weight, and is now literally just skin and bones- you can see all her ribs and she looks awful. She's just point blank refusing to eat- even her favourite foods.
The dr has suggested that she has an operation to insert a tube into her stomach, to feed her that way.
However, me and my Mum, (Nan's daughter), are the only family left, and don't know what to do. On one side, of course we do not want her to suffer and starve to death, but on the other hand, I do not want to force an operation on her that she wouldn't want. It's impossible to talk to her as she's so ill with the dementia.
Does anyone know much about this peg feeding, or been in the same situation and able to offer advice?
Thank you,
Eva x
2007-11-30
07:41:28
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