iam 19 years old girl,i use 2 live my life with all kinds of happiness ..i have been with my bf 3 years ...lately i had a problem which is hating my self,fightening with him,hear music to cry..look at the mirror feel sad,every time i see him i cry and fight him and like i need 2 pain my self !
iam so depressed nothin happened with me made me stressed ,i just ont know how to calm down on my bf and on my self..i want 2 be happy likeother girls...plz help me
2007-11-30 09:01:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
something happened.. even if you don't want to accept it.. and maybe it's not with the relationship but in some other part of your life... even if it's just the fact that you haven't changed anything in your life... that is something.
There's an underlying issue you aren't being honest with yourself about.. you need to figure out what that is... if you just can't, then counseling can help you figure it out. Plus they will help you through your depression.
2007-11-30 09:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by pip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
19 is a hard age... the happiness that you remember when you were younger was based on where you were then & what made you happy... Different things now make you sad & happy.
Everyone has moments and times when they don't know how to cope with today because today changes all the time and passes to becomes yesterday. There is always tomarrow !
Talking to people or a person about what you feel is the best way to help you sort out what you feel. You don't need to know the questions or answers sometime -- just what you feel .
You are not alone in this world ... people care - friends and strangers that have not become friends YET!
Tomarrow looks lucky! Today may not be too bad either!
2007-11-30 17:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by crs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we all feel that way I;m sure.You should call
a help phone crisis line to talk to a councellor, You can
find it in the phone book.They can be helpful,also you should
see a doctor because if you r iron is low it can make you feel
like crying and depressed.Maybe you should take a break
from your boyfriend because your so young and try to do things that
make you happy, never mind about him.Please yourself and if your happy others will be happy around you.HOpefully.
Maybe if you;ve just changed birth control pills going off or on
them can also make you feel depressed for a while,please
take care of yourself first!!!!
2007-11-30 17:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by crystal c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depression is often caused by chemical imbalances in the brain, and it is not always possible to identify what causes these problems. You should talk to a counsellor, community health nurse or other professional mental health worker. It is very difficult to deal with this issue on your own, and most people do not understand the pain it can cause. Counsellors are trained and experienced in helping and can make a huge difference. Please try this.
2007-11-30 17:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like depression. There are many causes. Please talk to a counselor or someone you trust. You may want to think about seeing a mental health professional to help you process these feelings so you can feel better and move on with your life.
2007-11-30 17:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by Phyllis C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋