Social Science - 22 November 2007

I am a 25 year-old virgin and no girl has ever liked me. Whenever girls see me, they run/drive away from me as fast as possible, and therefore I have zero confidence in myself. Since my face resembles my mother’s, I make her feel bad about herself by telling her how girls react to me and placing the blame on her (and on my father). This has taken its toll on her and I simply don’t care. Over the years, my mother’s mental health has deteriorated. She has been hospitalized several times, talks to herself, has become reclusive, and cries a lot. My father hasn’t let it get to him, though I make sure he knows that it’s partially HIS fault that no girl has or will ever be interested in someone as hideously ugly as me. Now, I am sure a lot of you will say I am being cruel, but you haven’t walked through life with MY face, that I have absolutely NO control over. All these other guys, even guys ten years younger than me, are enjoying what I have been missing out on all my life.

2007-11-22 03:58:29 · 20 answers · asked by gone 1 in Psychology

2007-11-22 03:55:23 · 12 answers · asked by Pinka 3 in Psychology

It occasionally happens that I meet rude people and later the memory of the unfortunate incident keeps coming to my mind for few days. I totally lose peace of mind. In such incidents I realize the other person completely misunderstood me. Though I understand that I did nothing wrong, still I suffer mentally. Do you people face such problems? If you do then how do you tackle? I am a bit sensitive and I am not used to receive bad treatment from my friends or people around me. Nowadays I console myself saying that there will always be rude people like these just like barking dogs on roads or venomous snakes in forests and I will have to live with that. What do you think about it?

2007-11-22 03:46:48 · 10 answers · asked by Roy 2 in Psychology

okay. my grandma died about idk.. in maybe like 2001 to 2002 im not sure. but anyway, i had a dream about her and she was talking to me and i can't really remember what she said exactly but she was like.. tell your mom frankensti and then a bunch of numbers. she didnt say frankenstein she stopped at the i and then i was just talking to her in the dream. then i woke up and first thing i did was i told my mom my dream and everything. and then she told me she had the exact same dream and then my mom called my aunt and told her and she had the same exact dream and then i called my cousin to tell her how weird it was and she had the same exact dream too! can someone please explain!?!

2007-11-22 03:44:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dream Interpretation

I know a girl who says she comes from a very supportive family...but she ended up being an escort anyway....NO not the kind that escorts an older man to an event, but the kind that promotes sex, fulfilling fetishes, etc. She even has a small daughter. Why do some women pursue this? Why not strip instead, do porn? It's better pay...most people say escorts were molested as kids or come from out of whack families, but I'm confused...what are your thoughts, and would you ever do it?

2007-11-22 03:40:53 · 2 answers · asked by chocolate_cat 3 in Other - Social Science

please help me.

heres my dream:

i waz with this guy from school. we were like flirting and stuff. then B4 i knew it he was beside me and hugging me and talking to me. then we.....kissed!
i know who this guy is....but i don't think that i like him. this is totally not being racist but i'm white and he's half black. idk if i really do like him. his personality is also WAYYYYY different then mine. do u think that i like him....or can you please explain this dream? idk what to think and I'm really creeped out by it. i have no clue whats going on...or how to explain this.



PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-11-22 03:33:55 · 19 answers · asked by ? 3 in Dream Interpretation

Also, what about men? Are all men beautiful?



Also, what exactly constitutes beautiful for you? Should beauty refer to the person as a whole, or to just their physical traits?

2007-11-22 03:28:14 · 33 answers · asked by G 6 in Gender Studies

This morning was the second time I had a dream about being attacked by a big white wolf. The first time I dreampt about it, I saw the wolf and grabed a gun. I tryed to shoot it, but failed. When it attacked me I woke up.
This time, I was watching the wolf folowing a little girl around the neighborhood, then out of nowhere the wolf lunged at my and sunk his teeth into my throat. I could feel teeth piercing my skin. and I had to fight to wake up.

Anyone have any ideas about this?

2007-11-22 03:24:52 · 4 answers · asked by amstringham 2 in Dream Interpretation

2007-11-22 03:23:06 · 6 answers · asked by Bethany 6 in Psychology

2007-11-22 03:21:32 · 10 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Psychology

If you frequently dream of appearing in an examination and feel helpless and blank as if some power is holding your hand tightly and in the end force me to come out leaving the answer sheet blank. Let me tell you --- I am leading a contented life with my wife, two daughters (both married), and a son.

2007-11-22 03:20:15 · 11 answers · asked by ADS 5 in Psychology

Tell me. What do You think brought it about, if anything?

2007-11-22 03:19:39 · 10 answers · asked by Karl 2 in Psychology

I just started a new job and my boss is controlling and power hungry. She has little tact and I've seen her bully almost all of her "subordinates".

None of them really call her on her behavior (she's the boss - what can you do, right?)

So far she's been okay with me but the act is starting to fade.

I know mean bosses aren't anything new but does anyone have any advice on what I can do to prevent being her next victim?

2007-11-22 03:16:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

Most of us have realized the power and deliverance in forgiving those who have wronged us but there are times and circumstances in which we must forgive ourselves before we can peacefully move on with our lives. Can you forgive yourself as readily as you forgive others?
I personally believe that forgiveness is a major key to true freedom - whether it means forgiving others or forgiving ourselves.

2007-11-22 03:15:08 · 9 answers · asked by Bethany 6 in Psychology

What is good for the goose is good for the gander. Could the U.S. make the yuan only worth 5 or 7 yuan?

2007-11-22 03:06:05 · 8 answers · asked by Dennis Fargo 5 in Economics

2007-11-22 02:45:44 · 10 answers · asked by jammey h 2 in Economics

In that dream I saw one of the inmates getting released and asking one of the guards on directions to Miami (whatever that meant). I couldn't find the interpretation of being a jail guard.

2007-11-22 02:39:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dream Interpretation

i am 18 nerally 19 and keep getting really down thinking my life is over and i am just wasting it i feel know that i have reached this age my whole life is just going to fly bye in a second and pass me by how do i stop tihnking like this/

2007-11-22 02:38:02 · 5 answers · asked by ahbwfc37 1 in Psychology

I'm only 18 so I still have a whole load of life ahead of me, but when I look at photos of me when I was like 13 somewhere deep in my heart I feel really sad. I look into the eyes of the person looking back at me and it's someone else. I was so young, innocent, not a care in the world. And so naturally beautiful without wearing a load of make-up and absolutely no insecurities. I had so much potential.

Is this normal? Does anyone else get this? What do you think this means?

2007-11-22 02:37:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

This is inspired by an answer a woman gave to another question recounting disappointment finding that a young man she described as "bright, thoughtful, and physically beautiful" was incompatible with her in the size of his genitlia. (Presumably, from her other comments, he was too small for her.)

She remarked that, "it does kinda suck that women have to commit to sex to find out."

Is this unfair? Is there a way to correct such unfairness? Should such women ask? Can a woman not "back out"? If a woman feels somehow pressured into not backing out when she wants to, does she feel violated?

2007-11-22 02:10:44 · 9 answers · asked by Gnu Diddy! 5 in Gender Studies

i've been feeling pretty down lately.
a lot of things with my boyfriend, my work, my college classes.
just very overwhelmed and like nothings going the way its supposed to!
anyone have an ideas that or things that I could do to cheer me up a little?

2007-11-22 02:05:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

2007-11-22 02:01:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Gender Studies

The Dollar value has been going down a lot, but not many people know of it, and yet it affects their daily lives. What do you think we should do to help the dollar value go back up?

2007-11-22 01:51:45 · 11 answers · asked by afghangrl 3 in Economics

one man thinking for one day (not talk to him)

2007-11-22 01:39:49 · 1 answers · asked by sundeep 9732 1 in Psychology

In all of your time dealing with life,have you stop
fealing guilty about mistakes you made.describe
brifley,under 500 words.

2007-11-22 01:35:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

2007-11-22 01:25:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

I mean especially the ones that have been in Yahoo for a long time, reading the questions and answers from contacts. Don't you care about them as people? Or you just see them like talking avatars? How personal you feel about the people in the other side of the computer as a fellow being?

2007-11-22 01:25:10 · 36 answers · asked by Flyinghorse 6 in Gender Studies

2007-11-22 00:46:54 · 3 answers · asked by sunny_hh_lu 1 in Economics

What if they're married?

2007-11-22 00:08:46 · 17 answers · asked by Jackisblackoncrack 1 in Gender Studies

2007-11-22 00:05:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology