It occasionally happens that I meet rude people and later the memory of the unfortunate incident keeps coming to my mind for few days. I totally lose peace of mind. In such incidents I realize the other person completely misunderstood me. Though I understand that I did nothing wrong, still I suffer mentally. Do you people face such problems? If you do then how do you tackle? I am a bit sensitive and I am not used to receive bad treatment from my friends or people around me. Nowadays I console myself saying that there will always be rude people like these just like barking dogs on roads or venomous snakes in forests and I will have to live with that. What do you think about it?
2007-11-22 03:46:48 · 10 answers · asked by Roy 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hi there ..
This is what will happen for simple straight forward people...but realise one thing, after few episodes like these, we will get used to it and then as you said, we learn to console ourselves..and we end up in comparing these rude evil people, to the evil spirits and the sorts of venouous reptiles we find in the forests.......
yes..you are partially right...
but, remember one thing....
why we should spoil our sleep just because that some stupid person is behaving in an awkward way ? agree with me..?
listen to more good soft music....friend...
try to relax and relax...
we have to survive in this crazy world....agree ?
best wishes !
2007-11-22 04:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by suresh k 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is something I'm just learning about myself. Here's what I'm finding out. Treat rude people with kindness. If you let their rude behavior get to you, you damage yourself.. If you treat them back with kindness you may be surprised that they don't even realize they're being rude, or they are nice people but ignorant. But mostly you will find that people who are rude treat pretty much everyone the same way, so don't take it personally. If someone bumps into you, say "oh, excuse me". I know a guy who will even say "oh, excuse me, I'm ever so sorry, it's all my fault" and he'll do so with so much sincerity, it makes people like him all the more. So be kind as much as you can. Don't ever act kindly and have a sarcastic tone, because you will still damage yourself.
2007-11-22 03:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by R. Trout 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im the same way at times. I just cant believe people go out of their way to create problems in other people lives. Sometimes i cant get it out of my mind that someone could do those things and it stays with me. If you have someone close who likes you for you and belives in you it makes it somewhat easier.
Most of them are rude in some way. They truly arent worth getting worked up over. Thats exactly what they want. They wanted to ruin your day.
2007-11-22 03:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah im dealing with that right how actually.
Its only 5 PM and it has already been the worst day ever, mostly cause of people. I did nothing wrong either but they are mad at me and i have no energy to explain to them all the s*** i just went through, i feel jaded and numb
2007-11-22 03:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by Mellissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are very much like me, and maybe alot of people out there. For me, in order to get peace, I have to forgive them...remember forgiveness is not really something you do for someone else it is something you do for yourself. The hard part of that is to put it aside then and not dwell on it. If you dont it turns to anger, and if you hang on, old anger turns to resentment.....I am sure you know people who live resenting everything, they are unhappy, ugly people. It is hard, we all have been where you have been, forgive and try to fill your thoughts with lovely thoughts, good thoughts.....
God bless
2007-11-22 03:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by Lezleykay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 03:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by acebedo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to put these people on their places and if in case you can't avoid them, pray and you'll have that peace of mind then.
2007-11-22 03:51:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
whenever these thoughts come to my mind i intrupt myself and say "let it go" this way u r training ur mind not to think about these useless things and after sometime the mind will stop! try it, it works!
2007-11-22 11:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by sab 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people will be people we cant controll there ignorants we just pray for them and try and avoid them as much as possible
2007-11-22 04:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be a sensitive little "NANCY BOY". Grow a pair of nutz!
2007-11-22 03:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋