My father was violently, sexually & psychologically abusive.
I married a man (&later left) who abused me pschcologically, telling me I was stupid, fat, embarrassing and trying to control who I was with etc, and isolating me from my family. I didn't see him as abusive, until my sis highlighted his behaviour (& he cheated on me too).
My ex b/f, displayed behaviour which I shall list. I never saw it as abusive until a Y! answerer suggested it.
He hit things when angry, shouted & swore at me, overly sensitive, jekyll/hyde, road rage, drove dangerously to scare me, made me feel guilty if I didn't spend enough time with him in group situ's, told me what to think, say & feel, discounted my feelings, didn't listen, finished my sentences & argued back at something I hadn't said, pushed me to do things I didn't want to, 'always right', made me question myself, alpha-male.
How can I avoid attracting / falling for men like this in future? I'm just falling for my dad over & over again :-(
2007-06-26
05:51:40
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rollacoasta
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Psychology