A guy that I've dated (he asked me out) and have been sleeping with for the past 2 years just told me he didn't find me attractive. I consider myself very attractive-e.g. blond hair, blue eyes, skinny, sexy body, dress sexy etc. And many men find me attractive. Nobody has ever told me this before. So I am confused about the definition of attraction. Then I asked him, "So there are even men out there who would find a hottie like Jessica Alba not attractive?" And he said yes. He said beauty is in the eye of the beholder/is subjective. Is this true-that each of us find different people (e.g. their face and body) attractive? I feel I have all the standard/typical physical qualities that a man would consider attractive in a woman. And I don't think he would have dated and had sex with me all those times if he didn't find me attractive. So I don't understand why he would say something like this.
2007-06-25
08:46:00
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