Social Science - 21 June 2007

filled with, abuse, mental/physicall, hurt, trauma, pain and victimisation?
im 30 have suffered all this throughout my life, i have bpd, ive never had my needs met, never had a girlfriend, never been employed.
now i have to try and pick up the pieces of my lonely life, i wait for therapy. every night i sit in my apartment with little posessions feeling very sorry for myself.
and then i see others around me, fresh faced and vibrant, with huge grins and smiles, living their lives, getting their needs met...seems to all come easy to them, i see it when i browse, myspace profiles, watch television, gameshows,( audiences laughing and grinning) whenever im brave enough to go outside, i see happiness and fullfillment in the shopping mall...
i see all that..and i have to endure fire and brimstone and sheer mental hell and loneliness

2007-06-21 08:59:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

I see and hear things that aren't there. Ionce heard a lady scream when the TV was off and my mom was reading the newspaper. Nobody screamed, my mom said when I asked her. I also saw a black puppy with its tail wagging in the master bedroom when we didn't have a dog, and I saw my dog standing in my bedroom doorway when she was out in the backyard. I also hear my parents calling my name when they didn't, and I heard a frog croak once when we didn't have an amphibian in the house.

2007-06-21 08:49:56 · 10 answers · asked by Darkavrell W 2 in Psychology

I am planning on becoming one and of course getting my Ph.D My ultimate goal is opening a private practice. If anyone has this occupation can you tell me the pros/cons or any advise please? I would really appreciate it.

2007-06-21 08:35:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

2007-06-21 08:31:32 · 36 answers · asked by Outsideoftheawareness 3 in Psychology

Won't other factors apply to prevent or adjust the rise?

2007-06-21 08:25:04 · 4 answers · asked by Answernian 3 in Economics

What do you do to make sure you meet deadlines, get things done?

2007-06-21 08:21:31 · 4 answers · asked by brilbeaut 2 in Psychology

What intrigues you about this person and what is mysterious about them (or make up ideal mysterious person)

2007-06-21 08:11:06 · 12 answers · asked by Outsideoftheawareness 3 in Psychology

2007-06-21 08:04:28 · 9 answers · asked by Outsideoftheawareness 3 in Psychology

Hey, i had this incredibly odd dream when i was about 9 or 10 where a pumpkin was on a giant popsicle stick (about 6ft) and it was chasing me around my house back and forth, the pumpkin was carved like a jack-o-lantern and i remember being scared lol, ive remembered this dream for about 7 years =S any ideas as to what it means?

2007-06-21 07:54:36 · 6 answers · asked by J-Dude 2 in Dream Interpretation

I am a man, and at my company I make less than a woman who sits right next to me and does the same exact job. Should I sue for gender discrimination?

2007-06-21 07:46:59 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Gender Studies

ok i have been having dreams the whole past week and i am remembering them and usually i never remember my dreams and i studied dreams a little bit so im trying to figure out what it means. last night my bf was at my house and we were trying to kiss before my parents came into the room and they kept coming into the room so we never got to. another one was that we were kissing and then he had to go and just left me. and then another one was we were at my house in my room babysitting and i was trying to kiss him but he just kept turning his head....please i need help on what this means!

2007-06-21 07:40:15 · 7 answers · asked by kittybeargirl 1 in Dream Interpretation

I had a dream last night....please interpet....?
For all you sages, chaldeans, and magi's......
I had a dream about a physically beautiful woman....hot body...
but no face!!!.....she is about 5'3"-5'4"...slender, brown-black hair....but no face!!!!....she was wearing a flower print dress....and washing dishes in a blue kitchen....and I was in love with her! What the heck does this mean?

2007-06-21 07:36:56 · 6 answers · asked by Experimental876 4 in Dream Interpretation

Ok, so I had a dream once where I was in a very empty parking lot. I was in an old beat up gold colored cadillac. I was in this dream all alone. I was backing up out of a spot and had to slam on my brakes to avoid hitting a car that came screeching very fast behind me. The action of slamming on the brakes actually jolted me and woke me up. I awoke (I was sleeping next to my fiance) and he then asked me if i was awake and i told him i had just woken up from a wierd dream, i was still half asleep and mumbled something about a car. He then told me that he had just woken up from a dream at the same time i did. In his dream he was driving in an empty parking lot in an old beat up gold cadillac. He was excited that he was by himself and he was driving around very fast and had to slow down when he realized there was a car backing up out of a spot.
Is it possible that he and i shared this dream? Him being the car that i braked for and vice versa? How odd is this?

2007-06-21 07:30:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dream Interpretation

im single and i keep having wet dreams someone make them go away

2007-06-21 07:01:47 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley D 1 in Dream Interpretation

It's been asked before but I wondered what your view is.

2007-06-21 06:58:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Anthropology

this person has given me a serious case of the butterflies, i find myself thinking about "X" every morning I wake up. Sometimes I cant even focus until I just think about "X". I am mortified by the idea that my obsession has gone this far, and I need to control it now before it ruins our friendship.

2007-06-21 06:46:03 · 5 answers · asked by dani 1 in Psychology

Are you where you want to be in life??10 years ago, did you think that you would be the person you are today??Just some random thoughts for this Thursday.So tell me, are you where you want to be in life??And what more could you want to make your life even better??And give realistic answers too, winning the lottery, well thats anybody's dream, so that is excluded from this question.Give me your most honest and real answers.

2007-06-21 06:40:07 · 3 answers · asked by ♥redsoxfan♥ 4 in Psychology

2007-06-21 06:39:19 · 12 answers · asked by T.T 2 in Psychology

which and why

2007-06-21 06:38:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

Growing up everytime I got a scrap my mom would turn instant hypocondriac and take me to the hospital saying I need stitches. Now as a grown up I constantly feel like I'm dying and that something is always wrong with me. I really do hurt but is my brain causing it? How can I stop this? It's not fair to the people around me...if I was them I would be going nuts! I get so worked up over medical problems I could have I make myself want to cry. I just want to enjoy life. I think my main problem is I don't know how to take care of me health wise. Money and lie I'm good....when it comes to health and checkups that we need in our lives I'm clueless...therefore it leads me to thinking I'm dying(NOT LITERALLY PEOPLE!) Any ideas on what to do?

2007-06-21 06:32:38 · 9 answers · asked by ~GiRLiE~ 3 in Psychology

2007-06-21 06:01:34 · 6 answers · asked by ? 4 in Dream Interpretation

Could you describe how you would travel to the nearest airport? ( or where ever you feel like going to..... ( it is the description I like....so please be descrptive..... )

2007-06-21 06:00:33 · 1 answers · asked by freebird31wizard 6 in Other - Social Science

i don"t what kind of person they are who make there sexual experiences online either by sending videos or stories.

How can somebody do this ....

does people don"t hav any work ?

how will they face eyes of there partner if they had made there video online without her consent ?

i am asking this question, because somebody asked me and i am not an expert on internet.

2007-06-21 05:23:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

(excluding the obvious)

2007-06-21 05:18:53 · 32 answers · asked by Emmie 3 in Gender Studies

Which gives people better, more fulfilling lives: communism or capitalism?

2007-06-21 05:11:20 · 7 answers · asked by timmy 1 in Economics

...aaaand why? Who is your hero in history? Who is your personal hero? Who do you admire... living or dead? It can be anyone.

2007-06-21 05:00:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Social Science

handle this? especially if you have pride and dont like the fact youve had to suffer alot of pain and trauma at the hands of others......its not like you can deny it happened, it makes me so angry, because i feel my ego and pride are dented, i get angry at any percieved vunerability i have, how can i deal with the fact people have hurt me alot and treated me so unfairly throughout my life?
i wish i hadnt of gone through anything in my life, i feel angry about it, i wanted a happy , carefree life, and i never got that,
so what can i do? im 30 now, have bpd, borderline personality disorder and im on a waiting cue for therapy,
i wanna soldier on & deal with this, but i cant help but feel angry, upset, resentfull, bitter about what ive been through, but then, i get angry at myself for feeling these emotions, because i wana be strong, 100% of the time, regemented, i wanna fight it, fight it,& emerge the otherside.
how can i feel about all this? that ive sustained alot of mental damage?

2007-06-21 04:53:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

I dont really have any selfconfidence and nether does my mum how can i build her selfconfidence up and mine.

2007-06-21 04:47:11 · 18 answers · asked by pottermad160 2 in Psychology

This dream started out normal.
I was on the phone with a friend that was confused about the recent news of another friend of ours that passed away. While I was making clear the facts 3 women came into my presence. One directly (she tried to distract me while I was on the phone) I said something to her quickly then I noticed my friend hung up. I said "HellO?" "HellO!".

So then the first woman became the focus of the dream She was saying things to me but it was blocked out of my hearing I backed her against the wall in a dominating and flirtatious way. The evening light shined dimly into the room. I Took her by the window where the other 2 were and started to handle all three. They all came together but didn't seem to be friends, they all had domineering energy and once the other two saw that I was with the 1st woman their energy did not change but they wanted me too.

2007-06-21 04:41:11 · 3 answers · asked by Ophiuchus 3 in Dream Interpretation

what if there was no money

2007-06-21 04:34:22 · 9 answers · asked by Destiny 4 in Psychology