ok i have been having dreams the whole past week and i am remembering them and usually i never remember my dreams and i studied dreams a little bit so im trying to figure out what it means. last night my bf was at my house and we were trying to kiss before my parents came into the room and they kept coming into the room so we never got to. another one was that we were kissing and then he had to go and just left me. and then another one was we were at my house in my room babysitting and i was trying to kiss him but he just kept turning his head....please i need help on what this means!
2007-06-21 07:40:15 · 7 answers · asked by kittybeargirl 1 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
we have kissed already...like A LOT! but its summer now and i cant see him bc of our parents...they dont want us to be together so we have to wait to see each other until aug. 20.
2007-06-21 07:52:58 · update #1
*sighs* okay well...... your dreams are as unique as you are. A good psychologist (no kidding) would probably be abe to help you get in tune with yourself, as per life experiences, to figure out why you dream SOME of the things you dream, and WHAT they mean.
Most times, we are simply working out our problems (i.e, thoughts, anxieties, worries, fears, concerns, even our passions) through our dreams. It's basically like all the thoughts we block during the day..... kinda do what they want at night while we're sleeping lol
BUT... (in my opinion) a psychologist will not be able to guide you as to correctly interpreting you 'spiritual' dreams as per (whatever religion that you are). they may offer suggestions, but only you know both YOU and your beliefs well enough that you could 'understand' your mind/thoughts concerning those things. besides, depending on your religion a certain symbol could have an entirely differnet ... 'definiton'. like, some people interpet elephants as wisdom. suppose in your religin elephants were evil, and you dreamt of one.... for someone to interpret your dream as a sign of wisdom would be incorrect. understand?
I'm sure there's people that will disagree with me, but here's my opinion:
FIRST rule: Don't make too much out of your dreams. Most times, its just daily stress working its way out of you. If you do have a dream that just "wont leave you alone".... then write it down.
SECOND: Look up some of the meanings of key symbols in your dreams.... like, an apple, or a big house or idk... a giant scary iguanna or something lol. (whatever you dreamt of). Attaching definitions to symbols is helpful BUT they are only a blueprint. 5 people could dream of a bridge, and for all 5 it could represent something entirely different. In essence, you gotta "go with your gut"...
THIRD: be logical and practical and introspective about your dreams. Dont make everything all one big flaky mess or read too much into it. Be honest enough with yourself that you can admit your fears, bad habits, attitudes etc to yourself if thats what your dreams telling you. No shame in admitting you have things you need to work on personality-wise - we all got them. Only if we are honest with ourselves can we recognise our error, and change.
FOURTH: Partner with some people (friends perhaps) that can perhaps share some insight into your dreams.
While sometimes one person may have the complete and correct interpretation, everyone has a valid opinion. And other people may see in you or your dream, what you cannot.
**** Also, as a rule of thumb, I usually try never to interpret my own dreams, or the dreams of a close friend or family member (unless they really ask for my thoughts on it) as well, sometimes i feel that perhaps i am not such a neutral party. human nature tends to use knowledge of situations and force personal opinion as an interpretaion and thats not always the correct answer OR a healthy one.
*Sometimes, when asked i have interpreted for friends, or my own dreams, but i try fervently to be of clear conscience, keep my personal thoughts far out of it, and listen to instinct and what my spirit tells me.
you may think this nutty, but well... to each his own.
I think its always good to remember, that no person is the 'authority' on interpreting; and different people have different methods, as well as different insights.
Best bet is to ask, get feedback..... and what issue (or theme) is most stressed by those who've given their insight, accept as the answer (unless, there's jack squat and your spirit like, completely pukes it out lol.... like, says 'no way!'). in any case, this is my opinion. I'm sure other people could offer you something different. Take it all with a grain of salt. And Good Luck.
2007-06-23 12:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This may be an indication that you need to look more closely at your relationship before you make any more commitments. Relationships can create sticky situations when they are kept secret from your parents.
A thought to consider: You're out one night w/ this boy and he approaches you about sex. B/c your keeping your relationship a secret from your parents, you feel more pressure from your peers to be included in the group. Everybody else in the group says that "everybody is doing it" when in fact, could be an outright lie or just plain misinformation. With the mounting peer pressure, you give in to your bf and get pregnant. Some would say just get an abortion, noone has to know. That means that you now have to keep two more secrets from your parents and that you would have taken an innocent life.
Better situation: keep your relationships open to input from your parents - they have at least 20 years of experience in relationships on you. Wisdom and knowledge about relationships only come from experience.
2007-06-28 08:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by Curtis P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These dreams seem to be dealing with the issue of wanting to spend time with your boyfriend and being prevented from doing so by your parents and then by your boyfriend. Seems to match what your parents are actually doing. But the hidden message may be the fear that your boyfriend doesn't feel the same way you do.
2007-06-26 20:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by treebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for the longest time i had dreams like this about this guy. i thought about him ALLLLL the time. Have you guys kissed yet? maybe its because you are wanting to kiss him but you havent kissed him yet? If you kiss him in real life maybe then the dreams will go away? lol. i dont know. sorry im just taking a few guesses.
2007-06-21 07:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry. earlier I created Jesus, i attempted to create an incubus to bypass down and impregnate Mary, even nevertheless it became out to be gay and not fascinated. that's as quickly as I invented the Holy Spirit. besides, this incubus looks lots like Jesus, so because it particularly is probable who you observed, no longer the actual Jesus.
2016-10-18 06:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're afraid of getting caught kissing cuz ur too young.
2007-06-26 16:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by Ophelia 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
had a dream a parent died
2015-06-08 05:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by Brenda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋