this person has given me a serious case of the butterflies, i find myself thinking about "X" every morning I wake up. Sometimes I cant even focus until I just think about "X". I am mortified by the idea that my obsession has gone this far, and I need to control it now before it ruins our friendship.
2007-06-21 06:46:03 · 5 answers · asked by dani 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Find other things to do. Obsessions and crushes are normal, even same sex crushes. The newness will eventually wear off, just try to keep it in perspective.
2007-06-21 06:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Caffiend 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god, I know what you mean! I was just obsessing about a guy not too long ago. I ended up getting over him and then I started obsessing about someone else. Preoccupy your mind with another crush. But most importantly, get involved in some hobbies.
2007-06-21 06:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by Pseudonym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. Keep yourself occupied, maybe try taking up an active sport. Not something like jogging, mind you. Jogging gives you plenty of time to wonder about X.
I tend to keep bugging the person I am obsessed with, like I initiate conversations every single day.
But I just think about how irritating I would be, and how that person wouldn't like it.
Eventually, the feeling always wears off for me and I stop liking the person altogether, so I'm let off the hook easy cause I can't stay infatuated/obsessed for very long. (: Might not be the same for you though.
Keep your mind occupied!
2007-06-21 06:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by dottiesunfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid them when possible. Keep yourself busy. Hang out with other people. Have some fun. Get some exercise. And best of all, find someone else to be interested in. Transfer those feelings to someone else, and you'll get over your obsession.
2007-06-21 06:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby. Find someone else to date, that should preoccupy your mind.
2007-06-21 06:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by mia k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋