As I see it, every person has a child and a grownup within him/her.
The child in women is partly reflected in the socially defined
femininity, where the woman is supposed to resemble the sweet little,
innocent girl. It is all a game, of course, but yet, it allows women
to show vulnerability, a privilege men don't have, as the masculine
role is all about self-confidence and strength.
I believe all people have a need to feel both strong and vulnerable,
and that it is against the human nature to associate strength and
dominance to gender. This is perhaps obvious, but still not
implemented, even in the part of the world where women's liberation
has come far.
It is good to feel the trust in another person who's willing to show
his/her inner child to you,
just as much as it is a relief to be allowed to show your own
vulnerability to someone who accepts you for who you are.
The lack of balance leads to that while men are deprived of being
allowed to show their vulnerability, women pay the price of male
condescending for showing theirs.
It is all so very dumb.
2007-02-11
02:19:34
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