Why american woman do not like to date hispanic guys?

Question

When I said American woman I said both, black and white.
I been in this country 5 years, I am hispanic and my english is not good, I was trying to date, but is very difficult because many told me the do not date Hispanic (black skin) guys

Well, now I know one reason why they do not date, prejudice, is true that many hispanic are not legal, and like everybody who is not legal, will try to be legal, but, I do not think we come here just to do that, american woman do not know things about hispanic because they never try to find out for them self, no just because the heard on TV, or any media

Answer 1

The only reason that I could think of is that some women may be afraid to date outside of their culture or are racist about minorities. I have dated some hispanic men when I was in Spain and I thought they were very pleasant. These women obviously are unaware of what a great experience getting to know people from other countries and cultures can be.

Answer 2

So, you know prejudice is still poisoning minds...this is most discouraging.
Here in California there are probably more females dating Hispanic men than in some other states, I see 'mixed' couples frequently. When cultures, ways of understanding things, ways of expressing feelings and thoughts are different, it can be a huge challenge to come together and relate smoothly.
However, there are still going to be people who are interested to know what the difference is all about, what the life of another person is like. Over time you'll encounter people who will see you as a human first, and will treat you like that - just another human from a different place and background. I hope those folks won't be too far and few between in your life.
Best wishes for companionship and love.

Answer 3

I can only give you my viewpoint from what I see around me.

I would never date one due to their lives being disposable so to speak.... They uproot and leave a location with 5 seconds notice, they have a problem letting go of "stuff", which simply means too much crap in the yard, dishonesty is soooooooo much a part of their lives meaning lie lie lie, its habit.

Their handling of finances would drive me to drink and possibly kill. The ones I know, go buy a new car or truck but live a shack sooooooooo disgusting I could puke. They have very different way of caring for their children than I would. I caught one with 3 social security card all to which he claimed were HIS.... now that milking the system and doing illegal acts !!! I could go on and on.

I mean no disrespect to YOU for I do not know you... this is merely my opinion from dealing with Hispanics everyday where I live. My opinions here are what the hispanics portray. If they are portraying the wrong message, they then to need to make a change before many will ever feel differently about them.

I hope my honesty has not offended you and if it has then you certainly shouldn't of asked a question here.

Happy Sunday !!

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Answer 4

Most Hispanic Guys Are Married In Their Country. They Are Over Here In The United States Looking For Someone To Try To Make Them Legal. They Are Not In It For Love. I Just Recentley Married A Hispanic Guy, We Have Been Together For Five Years. We LOVE Each Other Very Much. He Came Here When He Was Fourteen Yearts Old So I Know He Has Never Been Married.

Answer 5

When you say American woman, do you really mean white women? If you mean white women, I think they do already. I see a lots of white women with Hispanic men. There could be many factors. I don't think some Hispanic men are attracted to black women. I don't want to be someone experiment either. It really depends on their intention. I would date a Hispanic man. If he is really down for the black culture and is really attracted to black women. If there's chemistry. I would try to get with him. Race doesn't matter to me. If he is kind and respectful, and I am attracted to him. I don't care. I'm not prejudice.

It also depends on what type of women you are attracted too. Do you date women just for eye candy or someone who really cares for you as a person? I'm an older single mother. Most single men my age date thin 20 year olds.

Answer 6

There could be many reasons, other than your skin color and nationality. Some of them are the following.

1. Are you educated ? Many of them can hardly read or write.

2. Do you have a stable decent job ? Many of them are migrant workers and laborers.

3. How is your English ? Can you communicate intelligently in a family situation?

4. How do you plan to forget your culture and accept American culture in a mixed family.

I do not mean any offense. These are the facts of life. Find someone who has your own language and culture either here or in your own native country. You will be happier that way !

Answer 7

Because I think most of them would want to protect their white lineage. And maybe they have some misconception that all Hispanics are illegal. Personally I like Hispanics. They don't really bother me at all. I think they're more fun to be around than white people. I think the language is kind of hard to learn though.

Answer 8

What planet are you from???? I see white and black American women with hispanic men ALL THE TIME. Maybe you have giant mole on your nose, or have some bizarre mannerisms that scare women.

Answer 9

Many of my friends are mixed race couples, so I never realized that American women don't date Hispanics!

I'm sorry you're having a rough time, hope your luck changes soon.
Good luck!

Answer 10

Depends on their tastes. If they don't want a Hispanic guy, then they don't. It's easier not to force a person.