I'm only ever attracted to men that are 20-30 yrs older than me. i've never ever been attracted to a guy my own age, like not even once. i'm not a golddigger so its not abt the money or abt the older man being more mature, stable, whatever i couldnt care less...my friend has this theory about me wanting a "father figure" but my dad's always been there for me when i was little but me and my sister don't have any sort of relationship with my mom, she was physically abusive to us and left 3 times..i dont know if that matters anyway because my sis likes guys her own age so i dont know why i cant as well...i would prefer to have a bf my own age, someone i can have fun with but its weird knowing i'll never be physically attracted to him or turned on by him just because he's not 45 or something. being with an older man makes me feel special, i can't explain it, i just feel comfortable and safe, safe from what i dont know but i want him to look after me.
sorry this is a bit long!!!
2007-02-11
00:30:25
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