for the past few days I have been having VERY explicit sexual dreams about a friends wife, it was a very vivid dream, the sex was very passionate, and pretty much uninhibited. I am very close to both of them, and dont want to hurt the friendship, should I tell her or them? should I act on the fantasy? what does this dream mean?
2007-02-11 00:57:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
This is a case of a dream, just being a dream...Sometimes dreams have meaning, whether our brain is trying to sort stuff out, or trying to call our attention to something, but then you have dreams for pure entertainment...just for fun, and I think that is what this dream was and by no mean tell her about it, or act upon it...if you want to keep your friendship with them...
2007-02-11 04:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mechelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I acted on every dream I had, I would have skydived into a pool filled with chocolate pudding and rode an elephant to work by now. Not a good idea. And neither would it be a good idea for you to act on your dream. Obviously, you're attracted to her in a way that might be inappropriate, but she's married! AND you're close friends with her husband as well. Unless you brought it up over drinks in front of the two of them and you all ended up laughing your butts off...talking about it is completely unnecessary. It's your dream, your little fantasy, keep it that way. She doesn't need extra temptation in her life, and you want to stay friends with them both. Leave it alone. Are you seeing anyone? If not, find a girl who isn't married and have some fun...
2007-02-11 01:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by CharlieCat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is just a dream and certainly will not tell to your friends since you never know how they interpret such things. You cannot control your dreams therefore ignore the whole matter and in a short time, maybe another woman will take your friend"s wife place.
Besides, it doesn't mean you have sexual thoughts for her. She just represents the female icon in your dream. Do not pay much attention and soon it will pass.
2007-02-11 01:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh no no no no. I had sexual dreams about my hubby's friend to. But I never revealed it. That friend on the other hand told my hubby that he wanted to f**k me. My husband responded with "This is not Wal-Mart, there is a no exchange policy"
I was flattered and scared for him at the same time. I was surprised that my husband laughed, and didn't punch his lights out! They were both intoxicated.
The dream however, let it be. Enjoy them. Because if you told her spouse, he might get angry, unlike my hubby. But you can continue to have them has much as you want and can. I did!
2007-02-11 01:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What have been you thinking. that's style of a slap interior the face on your spouse. i do no longer blame your spouse for paying for disappointed. And for Melanie she would desire to shop her legs closed. what style of chum is that. How would sense if the shoe replace into on the different foot. Now you have created a uncomfortable difficulty between you and your spouse and Melanie. i think of you and the chum owe your spouse a brilliant apology. have you ever heard somethings are maximum suitable left unsaid.
2016-11-03 03:35:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By acting on it, you will of course run the risk of upsetting everything. Once done, you can't make everyone forget it. So if you plan to do it, be prepared for the deluge that may follow.
2007-02-11 01:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cause u have a crush on her or u and your friend is cool with each other and he comes over all the time thats the problem
2007-02-11 01:07:39 · answer #7 · answered by L M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u must let them that will demolish ur lifeand thier life try 2 love some one else travel
2007-02-11 01:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
probably you are bored with your present partner.... and you are subconsciously asking for a change....
NO.....dont tell her...... you may loose your friendship.....
But you can tell it to your partner... maybe your sex life could get better....( or your partner may get angry and leave you).. it is a risk ...you should calculate first ....
2007-02-11 01:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by importer911 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋