I met this guy on the net. he was having trouble coming to terms with an identity crisis. i wanted to help put things in perspective, make him see that there is nothing wrong with who he is. i thought i had managed to make him see that since no matter what you do you can't make everyone happy, you might as well do what it takes to make you happy. provided, of course, what you do doesn't hurt you or anyone else, endanger any futures and it's not ilegal. i thought i had helped him figure out his problems and move on.
however... i started noticing that he began to ask my advice on everything, and to always follow it. in trying to help him gain control of his life, it seems what i accomplished was to make him hand over control to me. i stayed away for some time, hoping my absence would fix that. however, as soon as i re-appeared, he went back to the same old habits. except he's more aggressive now.
2007-02-04
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gwenwifar
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