where can you meet plumpers? pale skinned chubby young brunettes, or young chubby white girls?

Question

i never see them, they seem to hide away when i try to venture out. plus how can i get a young pale white chubber of around 20 or 22 to like me? when i have incredable low self worth and am lonely. and are billy no mates and have mental health problems

Answer 1

Whoa! Steady on young man. You're discriminating against the Redheads. And by doing so - reducing your options.

Answer 2

Chubby Young Women

Answer 3

Chubby Young Girls

Answer 4

As a young brunette woman on the slightly overweight side of things, I kind of feel a little offended by the term plumpers and I don't think any girl likes to be called chubby. I really wouldn't know where to specifically meet the type of girl you're looking for but I would suggest not going anywhere with the intention of meeting someone, usually it happens when you least expect it. Maybe a dating website like OKCupid might be helpful if you have confidence issues. If you ever just want to talk to someone I'd be more than happy, I have similar problems and know how dificult things can get.

Answer 5

First of all, honey...figure yourself out a lil first. get motivated, take a class, take up a hobby...do something that you can feel good about.

Secondly...according to national stats..us big gals are everywhere. I don't know where you are at..but try hitting a club in a metropolitan area.

And to the fat girls who don't like being called "chubby"...good lord..give me a break. It's better than: fat, whale, cow, behemoth... plumper and especially CHUBBY are fine and dandy by this gal. Would prefer every one refered to us by the clinical term?? OBESE? According to every doctor's chart us "chubby" people are obese...hardly a term we can swallow and maintain our dignity with, considering the images that flood our minds when we hear it.

So quit bashing this guy.

And guy... when it comes to sorting yourself out....if you are seaking a big girl because you think low of yourself, that you can't have "someone better"...well, THAT is an insult. there are plenty of wonderful men in this world who prefer, like or don't care if a gal is "chubby". Whatever your reasons...find yourself...and when you aren't LOOKING for someone, they will find you. I know it's a bit of a cliche..but it never seems to fail.

best wishes...
a hot chubby RED HEAD ; ) lol

Answer 6

I think that maybe you should get your own mental health probs sorted first, then the mates bit will come naturally and then so will the girlfriend - girls want to see that you have a life of your own as well as it makes you good all round sort of a person - geddit?
Anyway, good luck with it all

Answer 7

This question is so odd I just have to answer!

Before looking for an ideal woman for yourself, you've got to sort yourself out. You apparently know what you like, and that's a good thing. Now you need to find out what you like about yourself. Be happy with it, and make yourself somebody that people with similar interests would like to be around and have conversations with. Once you do that, you can move on to step 2: meeting women!

So, you've got yourself sorted out, right? You know the kind of woman you're looking for, so you've got a leg up. However, you've also got a hindrance because you will not take just any woman, you want a woman with a specific body type and age. I would recommend finding them wherever you are. Let's look at the many places you can meet them:

BARS -- Girls at bars may or may not be good ideas. I would recommend staying away from them if you are looking for long-term relationships unless you meet them before 8pm and they plan on leaving the bar by that time.

BOWLING ALLEYS -- This is a bad place to meet a girl unless she's with one or two other girls and she's giving you googly-eyes. Situations like this tend to be affairs where girls are not looking to meet guys unless it is completely by chance. While a few women may be receptive to a very attractive guy trying to pick up on them in a situation such as this, most will not like the attention. I don't understand why, I just understand the concept.

CARNIVALS -- These are good places to meet girls, especially in the late afternoon or early evening, so long as they are not with guys.

COLLEGE/UNIVERSITY -- An excellent place to meet women who have the propensity to have a good head on their shoulders! These girls can be intelligent, engaging, and quite interested in a wide variety of topics, making for a partner who will not be boring or disinterested in things as time goes on.

So, we've looked at places to meet girls. Now, how do you go about meeting them? I'd suggest starting with "Hi. How are you?" If they don't look at you weird and shy away, maybe murmuring "fffine..." or nothing at all, then you're past the first step. Don't offer to buy a drink. That's what a guy looking to get laid does. Introduce yourself and ask her name. Ask her what she does for a living. If she says she's in college, ask her major. If she works for a particular company, ask how she likes it, or even ask what it is if you don't know. Next, tell her your job, and if it's a bad job, tell her you're a bit embarrassed about it. The catch is that it's all about small-talk and letting her know that your first move isn't going to be into her pants.

The problem with women that some will call "plumpers" and women who are extremely gorgeous is that they both have low self-esteem. This is good and bad. If you play your cards right and make them feel good to be themselves, you may be able to get a phone number and a date. If you come off too strong or needy, they'll read it loud and clear and you'll creep them out. That's the whole reason my first recommendation in meeting girls starts with getting to know and love yourself. Be happy with who you are and enjoy your life. Confidence or apathy will come across in your speech, your attitude, and your body language. Women can sense it, and they are attracted to those who have a certain confidence.

An excellent book I could recommend to you that will help you in learning to really like who you are is "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. It is a fantastic book that I know you will enjoy. Check it out, you should be able to find one on the cheap from half.com or Amazon.

Best wishes!

Answer 8

whoa there, maybe you should sort yourself out before dating anyone. i dont think there are many women who would appreciate being called chubbers, would you?
Well i certainly wouldnt be happy with being called that in fact you wouldnt get far.
try being less nasty maybe you will meet someone then,

Answer 9

Stick to watching Jerry Springer.

Answer 10

whe got ourself a chubby chaser lol