How can this person learn to love his or herself? What if the desire to feel loved it so great that the person has a hard time with this?
2007-02-04 19:17:35 · 5 answers · asked by Tiffany 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
a person who is unloved often becomes unloveable, meaning they make themselves even more difficult to be loved. it's a vicious circle. the only way that i know of to break out of it is to find a person who you love more than yourself. so you actually get lost in loving that person and totally forget about yourself. some people find this in loving God so completely that they lose themselves. others find that one true great love and lose themselves there. others seek and find great causes that allow them to love without regard to being loved.
2007-02-04 19:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by gvchina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think most people feel unloved from others, because most people are unloveable and incapable of expressing or feeling love. This is a universal phenomenon and given the pervasive me syndrome that has infected mainstream societies and cultures across the globe, I just don't see it getting any better.
2007-02-05 03:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the biggest thing a person wants in his life is to love and be loved.. if any one of tis is not satisfactory in ones life then the person is always unhappy ...the best solution is no matter how much people hate u give them love(big people like Gandhi had strong believe in this & were also sucessful) so u give love 2 others no matter how much hate they give you coz** LOVE ALWAYS WINS**
2007-02-05 04:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by siham 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are those who are rejected by those who are not capable of loving.
There are those who are addicted to attention and make up stories of rejection because they are addicted to themselves.
Both are unhappy because they are stuck and could benefit from honest communication from those around them.
2007-02-05 08:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only by living for others is the life we have worth while
2007-02-05 03:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋