my ex and i dated for 2 yrs but ended bc we always argued. as friends though, we get a long spendidly and a great friendship formed. however he told me he was going to dump his girlfriend and cheated on her with me. i know it was wrong but i still had feelings for him. anyway... that was a looong time ago and we're both single and friends. he's very, very skilled in bed so sometimes we fool around, but that's it. i thought we were just friends, until lately he'd been putting my pictures on his wall and wanting to hold my hand, etc. so i told him yesterday that i don't want to mislead him or anything, and that i just think of him as a good friend. now he's mad at me and ignoring me.
we've hurt eachother a lot in the past, but... we were fine as friends. now THIS happens.
what to do?
i really am happiest when i'm with him, and don't want to lose his friendship. i understand him the most, and i care about him despite the fact that he's mad at me now.
i need honest advice.
2007-01-14
13:23:15
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