my ex (also one of my best friends) is mad at me. i need advice, help!?

Question

my ex and i dated for 2 yrs but ended bc we always argued. as friends though, we get a long spendidly and a great friendship formed. however he told me he was going to dump his girlfriend and cheated on her with me. i know it was wrong but i still had feelings for him. anyway... that was a looong time ago and we're both single and friends. he's very, very skilled in bed so sometimes we fool around, but that's it. i thought we were just friends, until lately he'd been putting my pictures on his wall and wanting to hold my hand, etc. so i told him yesterday that i don't want to mislead him or anything, and that i just think of him as a good friend. now he's mad at me and ignoring me.
we've hurt eachother a lot in the past, but... we were fine as friends. now THIS happens.
what to do?
i really am happiest when i'm with him, and don't want to lose his friendship. i understand him the most, and i care about him despite the fact that he's mad at me now.

i need honest advice.

Answer 1

Seems like he thinks that sex it's a contract. A lot of people do. I think I understand why he feels mad, he's probably thinking that he has been mislead, cheated. Anyway, if you knew that he takes sex as an agreement for a relationship, then you're responsible too.

I guess you told him now directly what you want. I guess you cannot control his decision. He will decide.

Answer 2

i want u to answer me the following questions first.
1) r u really serious to go back n love him very much?
2) have u always with him?how often?any mutual understanding?common interest?respect each other?
3) does he really love u?how do u know that?
4) both of u r serious to marry ?

if all above r yes,then u can go ahead n woo him asap.good luck.

best wishes.