I am a slow thinker. Not that I think not as good as others, it's just I think slower. I also has a little confidence problem, partly due to I never/seldom win any argument and partly because my parents always teach me to become obedient to elders (like teachers) and be good to others (classmates). As I grew up, I find that many people are exploiting my decent behaviour to their own benefit, such as in an argument. I am not talking about high school kids fighting here. It's about adult's matters. I always stands firm on my viewpoint, but when it comes to an argument face to face, I always have the mental unstability that it's hard for me to fight back, such as a sudden lost of idea to support my argument. And I am proned to lose just because others speak louder to show their superiority or speak faster to stop me from giving my input. Besides I'm smaller in size and this adds to the superiority of my opponent (not as true but most think so).
2006-09-24
08:41:07
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