I consider myself to be a larger person. I'm not talking obese, etc, just that I have several pounds I could stand to loose and still be nice and healthy. However, I've always been curvy (very large breasted, etc) ever since I was a very young teenager. My husband absolutely loves the way that I look, but I think that I need to loose some weight because I'm afraid that 1) when we have kids, I won't be in good enough shape to keep up with their fast pace and 2) I fear that other people are always judging me for being overweight. My problem is that when I mention that I am losing a few pounds, or he notices my clothes fitting looser (this happens just because my weight naturall fluctuates so much), he gets very sad. How do you think that I can be attractive for my husband, and still be attractive for myself?
2006-07-14
04:12:11
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