Social Science - 18 July 2006

- I want to ask about my situation -
I can descriple my self as not self centred i mean no longer getting contact with my abilities. I quit study,work for 5 years for hard time i went through. I was so depressed back then now i started to train my body. I always write down notes for my self ....notes of encounters i have in my daily life ( i do not know ) how to activate them seriously.
PLus i always has the expectation thing which bothers me alot.
They say expectation is frustration...is that right?
Plus i do things waiting for comments how i can i get in my own actions and sayings with out them? Someone told me you have to challenge your self so you can grade YOURSELF. But i have to boost the feeling of SELF first. Is there any kind of training for this? I hate the way i think toward things i do.
How Should i take (compliments) from other people and use them for MY SELF>??? inestead of taking them suprefacially:-(
Maybe when i was a kid i was not like this..it was differ

2006-07-18 23:50:43 · 13 answers · asked by haya D 1 in Psychology

now where does mankind fit in...???? as an infant? an adult? or a senior?

2006-07-18 23:32:23 · 4 answers · asked by krisidious 2 in Sociology

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2006-07-18 23:08:50 · 11 answers · asked by David 4 in Other - Social Science

and whacking ducks with violins. Why?

Should I learn to play the violin?

2006-07-18 22:48:36 · 5 answers · asked by Coffee-Infused Insomniac 3 in Psychology

2006-07-18 22:46:27 · 11 answers · asked by superman 1 in Anthropology

2006-07-18 22:35:33 · 18 answers · asked by mike s 2 in Sociology

i dont know if he was joking or...(just a 3 second voice clip)
http://h1.ripway.com/smillez/danielle_7_19_2006@2_14_41.wav
i thought it was sexy, guess not.

2006-07-18 22:32:25 · 10 answers · asked by uglyvanity 3 in Sociology

If so, please explain. This is important so please give me sensible answers.
Thanks.

2006-07-18 22:15:44 · 5 answers · asked by waa haa. 1 in Other - Social Science

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2006-07-18 22:11:04 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

2006-07-18 22:04:07 · 3 answers · asked by raghavendra_kiran06 1 in Other - Social Science

... are still doing this. Theres no reason for it, i have good jobs, im a gd person, i dont do drugs. Thing is it messes me up as im always striving to get there approval, and as hard as i try i cnt.Is there anyway i can get out of this vicious circle???????

2006-07-18 22:03:21 · 21 answers · asked by tunachunks199 1 in Psychology

every time it has put me in a soup which ever option i take.........

2006-07-18 22:02:29 · 3 answers · asked by greeksun 2 in Psychology

2006-07-18 22:00:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Sociology

2006-07-18 21:58:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

Only to find out that it wasn't even green nor was it grass at all!?!?!

2006-07-18 21:47:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Social Science

Hi All,

I'm asking this because I'm trying to help my GF feel better about herself and it occurs to me that maybe the fairer sex bases their feelings of self-esteem on different things than I, an most guys might.

For me self-esteem comes from a feeling of efficacy, i.e. doing things well, from having a purpose as well as from being regarded well by my those around me. Would the list be the same for most women or would it be different.

2006-07-18 21:31:38 · 13 answers · asked by Some Guy 2 in Gender Studies

Have you done it, would you do it. Have you actually had any experience of it???

2006-07-18 21:21:25 · 12 answers · asked by HarryBore 4 in Psychology

2006-07-18 21:15:44 · 3 answers · asked by lethaandshankar 3 in Psychology

does freedom is something you gain or something that is given to you? what are the common limitations to our freedom? did u ever have to fight to get your freedom? what do u think about the existing systems with regard to their effects on freedom?

2006-07-18 21:08:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Sociology

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2006-07-18 21:00:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Gender Studies

2006-07-18 21:00:35 · 9 answers · asked by ngonde 2 in Sociology

I am sure it is some sort of obsession, I have been like this all my life. I want to change but I find myself spending way too long considering why I should keep something. For example, I will look at a bread tie for 5 minutes thinking about why I should keep it. My life is now cluttered and I have a very hard time prioritizing what to throw out, what to put in which closet. I want to change, I want a cleaner less cluttered life, but it is so much work. Help!

2006-07-18 20:57:06 · 15 answers · asked by tempelocal 1 in Psychology

when i am sad, I go to places just to see happy people, do you do the same, why

2006-07-18 20:54:05 · 7 answers · asked by howsureyouare 3 in Psychology

I have to clean the kitchen I dont wanna wanna wanna no not me!!!!!!! help....

2006-07-18 20:53:30 · 13 answers · asked by sugoishojo 1 in Gender Studies

Please respond accordingly. Your answer is important.

2006-07-18 20:52:47 · 4 answers · asked by zippo 2 in Other - Social Science

My favorite Color Now is Hot pink and 2nd favorite color is blue!

2006-07-18 20:48:09 · 13 answers · asked by Canela 3 in Gender Studies